I know I’ve talked about this to some people but can I have all the ladies in this chat or girls?

Right

Ok I was waiting for my mom to come back geez guys I can’t even breath

@GummyDrop sorry :(

So I’m very fragile right now about my body I have small boobs and all the girls at school are busty and I feel like a spotlight on me whenever I walk like I’m abnormal. My mom & her friend had engraved this insecurity on me as young as 10! Her friend said “you need to eat more like my daughter 🍗🍚 to gain more weight to grow your boobs, or no boys will like you your so skinny.” My mom was right next to her and didn’t defend me at all😔. Seriously? At 10 I need to look like a SUMMER RAY? Holy MOTHER OF JES- I saw 👀 that woman the other day now 16 so 6 years later & didn’t say hi to her when my mom told her. I felt great 😌 cause when I saw her it flashback to that day the days where she hurted me not the day she helped me. Luckily this event never happened to my sister so she’ll won’t have a deepen scar like I do and only I was the one who took the bullet cause now I’m older if my mom said that to her I can defend her. Sometimes I wanna run to my mom & give her the biggest hug but this event has blocked that from happening. When I look into her eyes I only see resentment. How do you love someone who hurted you? Mother is the person who you should feel warmth heating up your long winters not wither your spring smiles. I hope when I grow up as a mother I can give my kids what my mother never gave to me. It’s so annoying when I see images of guys holding their wife’s boobs projecting the idea that you need to have boobs big enough to satisfy a man. Or walking pass the male gaze with a flat chest feels like inside they are shaming me. I thought even my female friends would make fun of me or leave me cause “I wasn’t like them with boobs that were enough to be visible to mark womenhood”. And I’m about to present on Monday in front the class I feel like I need to cover the poser in front of me so no one notices my small boobs. FUCKING SUCKS HAVING A NATURAL REACTION TO CROSSING YOUR ARMS SO NO ONE SEES MY CHEST, Or a punishment to not take off my hoodie even when it’s hot so no one sees that I’m flat chested, FUCKING SUCKS HIDING MYSELF, or even worst {FORCE FEEDING MYSELF TO GAIN WEIGHT TO HAVE ENOUGH FAT TO GROW MY BOOBS BUT IF IM TOO FULL AND ANXIETY HITS ITLL MAKE IT HARDER TO BREATH} I’m breathless after writing this down.....

@GummyDrop Did anyone read this

@GummyDrop love your body just the way it is!!!!i have a flat chest too!!!own your flat chest!!!also we women don’t live for men......

@_abigAil.26_ OMG YES I WAS BEGGING YOU TO READ THIS YOU FINALLY DID

@_abigAil.26_ Don’t you feel the need to compare when others are bigger than you? Ps I’m working with a therapist with my anxiety first then body postivy

@GummyDrop i don’t really focus on that.....here think about it this way....you can wear tank tops and cute tops that are revealing and also your back doesn’t hurt whereas girls with bigger breasts have back pain.....also girls with bigger breasts can be insecure too and wish they had a flat chest!!!own ur flat chest!!!its the body you were born in!!!!your body takes care of you so much!!!💗💗✨✨

@_abigAil.26_ I feel like a spotlight on me where I go I even worry that my friends will treat me less or tease me whenever they mention the word skinny though they never made fun of me I’m anticipating it and it’s worrisome so maybe that’s why I always feel a spotlight on me

Hey it’s above I wrote it

@GummyDrop Where?

@BritD Scroll up it’s a long paragraph

I wrote it aboveeeeee

I’m over here on the very small chested size and although it used to really bother me I definitely doesn’t anymore. Im the only small chested woman in my entire family (both sides!!!) which I think it why it used to bother me so much. Now that my sisters always complain about clothes fitting, finding bras, and back pain it makes it easier to mot be jealous. I will say that I’m in my 30’s and it did bother me for a long time. I will also say that people very likely aren’t just staring at you because of your chest. But if they are, you can choose to think it’s negative but you can also choose to realize it might be in a positive way