no idea if this is a theme, but i told someone a lie while i was drinking (that something happened on a different day than it actually did) and now i’m trying not to retreat, google about lying, delete all social media, etc. because i don’t want to taint other people’s lives for being a liar….maybe some kind of morality theme?

Anything can be a theme! Themes are just umbrella terms for general categories of obsession. Scrupulosity is the word most commonly used to talk about what you’re describing.