- Username
- GummyDrop
- Date posted
- 3y ago
Express your concern! They are there to help you. They probably expect their first time patients to be nervous.
Advocate for yourself!!
NOCD therapists are awesome. She truly listens to me and when I ask her a question she explains things very well. I have done years of traditional talk therapy and made pretty much no progress. I've had 5 sessions so far and can already see progress. If you don't understand something, ask or tell the counselor to provide clarification. Dont be afraid to speak up. The counselor is there to help and support you.
Can a licensed NOCD therapist diagnose me and if so, how do I communicate that diagnosis to my regular psychiatrist?
@Ant Man Just ask them that’s why hat I did
You need to see an OCD specialist or it probably will be a waste of time
Oh nah it’s not for ocd since mines is low it’s for anxiety
@GummyDrop Oh ok what do you mean by their answer will be vague? What answer?
@Anonymous Like if I have a low anxiety they’ll be like “drink water” things that I’ve already did that won’t work you know?
@GummyDrop Yea that’s like condescending. If a clinician ever says something unhelpful you need to inform them that you already know it doesn’t work for you and tell them what you think you might need.
@Anonymous Noted I will advocate and speak for myself this new time
Just beware that OCD can be diagnosed as anxiety. I was diagnosed with generalized anxiety years ago. I never questioned it until last month when I learned learning more about OCD. I've had OCD since childhood and never knew. Counselors and doctors can be so condescending. I had a counselor who told me I was a bitch. Another kept telling me I was depressed even though I wasn't. I started having panic attacks when I was 17. For over a year and a half, I had 15 to 20 panic attacks a day. I mentioned it to my pediatrician. His response was "Thats not that bad" Found out later he had some kind of issue with women. If you happened to be male, he would listen. My brother thought he was great. If you were a woman, he was very dismissive. It irks me to no end.
Wowww wtf??? That is so unfortunate that you had to go through that.
Damnnn
Also I’m very scared to do try the initial therapist call cause I’m scared to hear something I don’t want to hear
i want to start erp therapy but i’m so afraid to say my thoughts out loud bc even though i know i don’t be judged i’m so scared bc i feel like the therapist might judge me in her head and that i’ll be extremely embarrassed
I’ll be honest I am mostly overthinking it and some words of encouragement would be nice but I am just ranting my worst fears here. What if all my worst fears come true? What if she concludes that this is pedophilia and not ocd and I was just using ocd as an excuse? What if she says that I am crazy and that I’m gonna get locked up in a psych ward? What if she says that I was always a psychopath who got off to people being in pain? What if these pedophilia thoughts have always been here even though I really want them to go away it’s like I just can’t do it. I want these thoughts to lessen and I want my groinal responses and other bodily responses to go away and I want to live life and show love to everybody without thinking I have some ulterior motive. I’m hoping I can get my answers because I’m gonna be spending a lot of money that I don’t really have because my insurance won’t do me any favors. I hope everything will be okay.
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