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lmaocd🍓🥰
8d ago

anyone with rocd convince urself u don’t have feelings for ur partner to the point where u lose butterflies for them n start seeing them as a friend? even though u don’t think of them like that at all and u just had butterflies for them yesterday. but u convince urself it’s not real and then lose ur feelings for them????? help

Hey I'm Sky
8d ago
If you really love them ,then the feelings are still there,and same
lmaocd🍓🥰
8d ago
what do u mean? i don’t understand sorry
Hey I'm Sky
8d ago
@lmaocd🍓🥰 You still love your partner,you just can't feel it,and I'm going through that too
lmaocd🍓🥰
8d ago
@Hey I'm Sky oh yeah i understand. it’s rlly hard:(
Hey I'm Sky
8d ago
@lmaocd🍓🥰 I'm feeling so empty ...
lmaocd🍓🥰
8d ago
@Hey I'm Sky i get that. i’m rlly sorry. i feel like i’m never gonna just be able to enjoy a relationship
Hey I'm Sky
8d ago
@lmaocd🍓🥰 Yeah...
cdituri
8d ago
Another thing to add here- relationships aren't all about "butterflies." I think part of the disorder is that butterflies fade after the honeymoon phase for everyone, but people like us take that as a sign of uncertainty and get uncomfortable with it. Remember that love is a choice you make, not just something you feel. There are gonna be times you don't have OCD symptoms and you can't stand your partner, lol. This is life. Don't give up.