anyone with rocd convince urself u don’t have feelings for ur partner to the point where u lose butterflies for them n start seeing them as a friend? even though u don’t think of them like that at all and u just had butterflies for them yesterday. but u convince urself it’s not real and then lose ur feelings for them????? help

Another thing to add here- relationships aren't all about "butterflies." I think part of the disorder is that butterflies fade after the honeymoon phase for everyone, but people like us take that as a sign of uncertainty and get uncomfortable with it. Remember that love is a choice you make, not just something you feel. There are gonna be times you don't have OCD symptoms and you can't stand your partner, lol. This is life. Don't give up.