- Username
- Sound Lotus
- Date posted
- 3y ago
I'm not around the age range you are, but I just so happen to grow up with those same kind of games. When I was 5, the earliest examples of games I remember playing were NES and SNES games and I remember the fond memories I have with them. They've never left my memories and I'm always happy to be around those games. Since the beginning of my lifespan I've always had connections with video games and music. It's wonderful.
Me too! I grew up more around Nintendo 64 games though, but I also really like NES and SNES games too! What kind of music do you like that you had connections around growing up? I like a lot of different kinds of music. My favorite genre is Drum & Bass which is a popular genre in the UK and New Zealand. But I also love 70's rock like Led Zeppelin and The Rolling Stones. I also like to listen to some Metal sometimes too.
@Drew777 Any music really, but I find myself listening to music that comes from video games I like a lot. I'm positive that I like more songs that are decades older than the ones now. If I had to pick, Jazz, ballad, rock, and rap are pretty good
@BigGip09 Yeah, video game soundtracks often times have some great music in them! Yeah, I like older music better than newer music too I'd say, like 70s and 80s and 90s too. But I also like a good bit of music from the early to mid 2000's, even though I know that really isn't that old. Jazz is awesome! I love the sound of the saxophone the best I think. And of course rock is just so classic! I like some old school rap like House Of Pain. And ballad is a such a relaxing and peaceful genre. :)
@Drew777 Honestly I'd be willing to consider the early/mid 2000s to be retro. That's 21 years from now and looking back, we've come such a long way with music, video game consoles, etc. I think it also depends on where you look in those things as well.
@BigGip09 Yeah, you're right, we really have come such a long way with everything since the early/mid 2000's, everything felt so different even just back then. And yeah, I think it really depends too with all of what we're looking at with those things from back then.
@Drew777 That was a pretty decent chat, bro. What brings you to NOCD anyway?
@BigGip09 Yeah, it really was a nice chat. And one reason I really love this app is to be here to help others with there daily struggles, it makes me sad to see the pain people are facing on a regular and daily basis, but I realize I've not been allowing any time for myself or my needs recently either in trying to use all of my time to be there for everyone else... I'm not good at balancing things out in that way... Any advice? I also love this app though because I've realized that ALL people have such amazing insights to offer on various topics! It's so encouraging to see things being talked about by so many people from so many different perspectives and personal experiences. This is an awesome community and I'm just so glad to be a part of it. :) Also, I just wanted to say that I read everything you have typed on your profile and I feel like it is all truly inspiring. I feel like it may have even answered some questions I've been having about myself and what I should be doing to try and live my life in the best possible way. I realize that sounds kind of odd, I think I just need to talk to a therapist about how I'm feeling... but anyways, I just wanted to say thanks BigGip09. It's been nice talking to you friend. :)
@Drew777 That was a nice and honest reply you left there. Much like me, it seems that we get a lot of joy in helping people and that's really nice. It's always good to have people that are willing to help others and listen to people in order to lift them from struggles whether similar or different. You also have to make time for yourself with the use of self-care. That's important for your overall health. I'm often too hard on myself and it causes me to only focus on things that I either didn't do in the past but could have, things I haven't gotten to in my life, and only my mistakes. It's a very negative process, but also addictive and it's something I need to try and stop. I'm also glad my profile was able to help in some way. It's not odd at all to need to talk to a therapist. It's completely normal and it should be encouraged that you're looking to talk to someone professionally about how you feel, man.
@BigGip09 To add to this real quick. Part of why I love doing threads like this is to help normalize the experience of needing therapy. It's been "taboo" for so long, and it shouldnt be. As I said above, we're still people. And we should embrace that. Hope y'all are well tonight.
@BigGip09 Sorry I never replied to you BigGip09. I've honestly just been trying not get on this app too much for the last few days because I realize I've been stressing myself out by feeling like I have to help everyone on here all the time. But I still love this app and I'm so glad to be able to talk to the people on here, I just want to make sure that I also take the proper time I need for myself to relax as well, like you were saying with the use of self-care. And I can relate to what you're saying about being too hard on yourself about stuff. I obsess about feeling like I have to do all of theses specific tasks each day, or spend time talking to all of these specific people, otherwise I'll feel guilty, and I know it's not healthy so I need to try and stop too, but like you said it's a negative and addictive process and it's difficult to break out of. I really want to talk to a therapist, I just don't know how to handle the financial part of all of it... :( I'm sure in time it'll all work out though, I just need to keep trusting in God and know that God will help me through this. :)
@Sound Lotus I agree that the experience of needing therapy should be normalized. We are still people, and we have nothing to be ashamed of. :) sorry for the late reply Sound Lotus, I hope you're well too friend. :)
I like old school games but also more modern games too. I grew up in the late 90's so it was kind of a big turning point for video games. I love the Nintendo 64, classic system with equally classic games like Super Mario 64, Banjo Kazooie, Glover 64, Mario Party's 1-3 and Mario Kart 64. (just to name a few, haha) Also love playing Playstation 4, so many different types of games like Fallout 4, Slime Rancher, Stardew Valley, Fall Guys: Ultimate Knockout and Ratchet & Clank. There's so many more games I love to play, it's my favorite hobby. :) I'm glad to see a post on here about video games, it's a great reminder that we're all just people here who sometimes have a lot of the same interests and sometimes different interests too. It's just nice being able to talk about life, OCD, hobbies and just everything with people on here. :)
Thanks so much for your kind words. One reason I like creating threads like this is to sorta "rehumanize" what were going through. We might be sick and hurting, but we are still people with interests. This isn't to take away from the validity of other posts, but just to provide a break amidst the hell that is OCD. Also I heckin love Fall Guys. If you were on PC I'd say let's play haha. Part of me wants to start a discord for NOCD gamers.
@Sound Lotus I agree with what you're doing to "rehumanize" what we're going through. :) OCD may be one thing we all have in common that's a struggle for us, but our OCD doesn't define us, there is SO much more about who we are than our OCD. I believe it's good to focus on other things amidst the OCD, just to make life feel more normal to us. :) And that's awesome! I thought Fall Guys was a cross platform game though? Can't PC and Playstation players play together? I think an NOCD gamer discord server sounds like a great idea though! I would 100% love that. :) Hope you have a great night Sound Lotus! God bless! :)
omg I never thought I’d see an Amiga reference here… I don’t even know where to start nerding out first 🤯 I think the first game I played was Pitfall on an Atari 2600, but my entire worldview is more or less organized around the alignment system from Planescape haha. I met my husband on a video game message board in the early 2000s - originally he was just some internet jackass I knew for 5 or 6 years before I happened to move to the same city 😜 Yesterday my dad came over so hubs could fix some battery problem on his phone… afterward I sent him a test SMS and heard a “Hey! Listen!” alert coming from the kitchen 🙈
What I'm hearing from this, is that we're now best friends solely based upon your Planescape reference. I actually need to finish that game.
@Sound Lotus Doooooo it… it’s even been ported to mobile now… My gaming magnum opus will be to eventually run a major play-by-mail tabletop campaign, though. It’s technically a 2nd-edition setting but it’s so detailed that you could run it with pretty much any system. 💌📦💎🖋🌌
Hey everyone.... What's your favorite hobby? :) I like to draw, write, animate, and sing. How about you guys?
This thread is for anyone who wants to chat with me about their nerdy interests! I'm really into Nintendo games and animation. Would love to meet some other people here who can relate, maybe we can exchange our Switch friend codes and play online sometime! I know this app is for OCD treatment, but I really want to use this platform to connect to people and make new friends. We all know how difficult it can be to engage in conversation with others when we suffer from intrusive thoughts, believing they would hate us if they knew what goes on inside our heads. We're all here for the same reason, so that barrier of entry is gone. We don't have to worry about hiding our "deepest, darkest secrets" because that ice has already been broken. As someone who also suffers from social anxiety and spends most of my time in isolation (I only have one close friend I talk to regularly--I fell out with my three best friends in the past year, which has been incredibly difficult) I think reaching out and connecting with others is instrumental in my recovery process. So, this forum is purely for people who want to be friends and talk about our hobbies and interests! While I'm hoping to find some likeminded gamers and artists, I'd love to get to know you regardless of what your hobbies are, so feel free to share your interests even if they're different from mine! I hope this doesn't violate the rules of the app or anything, but I really wanna keep the discussion on mental health to a minimum in this thread, if possible. I just want this to be a fun space to share what we like! Exposures are an essential step in the recovery process, but that doesn't mean our goal should be all work and no play. Let's just enjoy ourselves here and tell OCD once and for all that we don't have to take everything seriously! Tell me what movies you like, what TV shows you're watching, what video games you're playing, what projects your working on! Just be sure to make it FUN!!! 😁😁😁
Im curious.. How old Is everyone here? What theme do you deal with? Anything you want to get off your chest?
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