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I'm not around the age range you are, but I just so happen to grow up with those same kind of games. When I was 5, the earliest examples of games I remember playing were NES and SNES games and I remember the fond memories I have with them. They've never left my memories and I'm always happy to be around those games. Since the beginning of my lifespan I've always had connections with video games and music. It's wonderful.
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Me too! I grew up more around Nintendo 64 games though, but I also really like NES and SNES games too! What kind of music do you like that you had connections around growing up? I like a lot of different kinds of music. My favorite genre is Drum & Bass which is a popular genre in the UK and New Zealand. But I also love 70's rock like Led Zeppelin and The Rolling Stones. I also like to listen to some Metal sometimes too.
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@Drew777 Any music really, but I find myself listening to music that comes from video games I like a lot. I'm positive that I like more songs that are decades older than the ones now. If I had to pick, Jazz, ballad, rock, and rap are pretty good
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@BigGip09 Yeah, video game soundtracks often times have some great music in them! Yeah, I like older music better than newer music too I'd say, like 70s and 80s and 90s too. But I also like a good bit of music from the early to mid 2000's, even though I know that really isn't that old. Jazz is awesome! I love the sound of the saxophone the best I think. And of course rock is just so classic! I like some old school rap like House Of Pain. And ballad is a such a relaxing and peaceful genre. :)
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@Drew777 Honestly I'd be willing to consider the early/mid 2000s to be retro. That's 21 years from now and looking back, we've come such a long way with music, video game consoles, etc. I think it also depends on where you look in those things as well.
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@BigGip09 Yeah, you're right, we really have come such a long way with everything since the early/mid 2000's, everything felt so different even just back then. And yeah, I think it really depends too with all of what we're looking at with those things from back then.
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@Drew777 That was a pretty decent chat, bro. What brings you to NOCD anyway?
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@BigGip09 Yeah, it really was a nice chat. And one reason I really love this app is to be here to help others with there daily struggles, it makes me sad to see the pain people are facing on a regular and daily basis, but I realize I've not been allowing any time for myself or my needs recently either in trying to use all of my time to be there for everyone else... I'm not good at balancing things out in that way... Any advice? I also love this app though because I've realized that ALL people have such amazing insights to offer on various topics! It's so encouraging to see things being talked about by so many people from so many different perspectives and personal experiences. This is an awesome community and I'm just so glad to be a part of it. :) Also, I just wanted to say that I read everything you have typed on your profile and I feel like it is all truly inspiring. I feel like it may have even answered some questions I've been having about myself and what I should be doing to try and live my life in the best possible way. I realize that sounds kind of odd, I think I just need to talk to a therapist about how I'm feeling... but anyways, I just wanted to say thanks BigGip09. It's been nice talking to you friend. :)
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@Drew777 That was a nice and honest reply you left there. Much like me, it seems that we get a lot of joy in helping people and that's really nice. It's always good to have people that are willing to help others and listen to people in order to lift them from struggles whether similar or different. You also have to make time for yourself with the use of self-care. That's important for your overall health. I'm often too hard on myself and it causes me to only focus on things that I either didn't do in the past but could have, things I haven't gotten to in my life, and only my mistakes. It's a very negative process, but also addictive and it's something I need to try and stop. I'm also glad my profile was able to help in some way. It's not odd at all to need to talk to a therapist. It's completely normal and it should be encouraged that you're looking to talk to someone professionally about how you feel, man.
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@BigGip09 To add to this real quick. Part of why I love doing threads like this is to help normalize the experience of needing therapy. It's been "taboo" for so long, and it shouldnt be. As I said above, we're still people. And we should embrace that. Hope y'all are well tonight.
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@BigGip09 Sorry I never replied to you BigGip09. I've honestly just been trying not get on this app too much for the last few days because I realize I've been stressing myself out by feeling like I have to help everyone on here all the time. But I still love this app and I'm so glad to be able to talk to the people on here, I just want to make sure that I also take the proper time I need for myself to relax as well, like you were saying with the use of self-care. And I can relate to what you're saying about being too hard on yourself about stuff. I obsess about feeling like I have to do all of theses specific tasks each day, or spend time talking to all of these specific people, otherwise I'll feel guilty, and I know it's not healthy so I need to try and stop too, but like you said it's a negative and addictive process and it's difficult to break out of. I really want to talk to a therapist, I just don't know how to handle the financial part of all of it... :( I'm sure in time it'll all work out though, I just need to keep trusting in God and know that God will help me through this. :)
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@Sound Lotus I agree that the experience of needing therapy should be normalized. We are still people, and we have nothing to be ashamed of. :) sorry for the late reply Sound Lotus, I hope you're well too friend. :)
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I like old school games but also more modern games too. I grew up in the late 90's so it was kind of a big turning point for video games. I love the Nintendo 64, classic system with equally classic games like Super Mario 64, Banjo Kazooie, Glover 64, Mario Party's 1-3 and Mario Kart 64. (just to name a few, haha) Also love playing Playstation 4, so many different types of games like Fallout 4, Slime Rancher, Stardew Valley, Fall Guys: Ultimate Knockout and Ratchet & Clank. There's so many more games I love to play, it's my favorite hobby. :) I'm glad to see a post on here about video games, it's a great reminder that we're all just people here who sometimes have a lot of the same interests and sometimes different interests too. It's just nice being able to talk about life, OCD, hobbies and just everything with people on here. :)
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Thanks so much for your kind words. One reason I like creating threads like this is to sorta "rehumanize" what were going through. We might be sick and hurting, but we are still people with interests. This isn't to take away from the validity of other posts, but just to provide a break amidst the hell that is OCD. Also I heckin love Fall Guys. If you were on PC I'd say let's play haha. Part of me wants to start a discord for NOCD gamers.
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@Sound Lotus I agree with what you're doing to "rehumanize" what we're going through. :) OCD may be one thing we all have in common that's a struggle for us, but our OCD doesn't define us, there is SO much more about who we are than our OCD. I believe it's good to focus on other things amidst the OCD, just to make life feel more normal to us. :) And that's awesome! I thought Fall Guys was a cross platform game though? Can't PC and Playstation players play together? I think an NOCD gamer discord server sounds like a great idea though! I would 100% love that. :) Hope you have a great night Sound Lotus! God bless! :)
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omg I never thought I’d see an Amiga reference here… I don’t even know where to start nerding out first 🤯 I think the first game I played was Pitfall on an Atari 2600, but my entire worldview is more or less organized around the alignment system from Planescape haha. I met my husband on a video game message board in the early 2000s - originally he was just some internet jackass I knew for 5 or 6 years before I happened to move to the same city 😜 Yesterday my dad came over so hubs could fix some battery problem on his phone… afterward I sent him a test SMS and heard a “Hey! Listen!” alert coming from the kitchen 🙈
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What I'm hearing from this, is that we're now best friends solely based upon your Planescape reference. I actually need to finish that game.
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@Sound Lotus Doooooo it… it’s even been ported to mobile now… My gaming magnum opus will be to eventually run a major play-by-mail tabletop campaign, though. It’s technically a 2nd-edition setting but it’s so detailed that you could run it with pretty much any system. 💌📦💎🖋🌌
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- 24w
So, my main thing is that I've been worried about being attracted to and enjoying NSFW stuff of fictional characters. Specifically characters with unknown ages, possibilities of being a minor, an adult in high school, a character who ages up/becomes 18, and then young adult characters who are 18-25. I just wonder if it's pedophilic, creepy, morally wrong to like these characters? And if it'd be weird as I age to continue liking them in those ways or new characters? Like, some examples. I'm attracted to Mark from the show Invincible. But he's 17-19 in each season. I didn't like him in season 1, but when season 2 came out I realized I started feeling attracted to him. But I'm also afraid I will feel that attraction when seeing s1 of him at 17 and stuff. But anyways, I just worry that if I'm like 23+ if it'd be wrong to continue being sexually/romantically attracted to him and fantasizing about him since he's 18/19? Then, I like Genshin Impact and Honkai Star Rail characters. And most of them don't have canon ages. All you got is looks and maybe some in game context. Some characters have age ranges of like 15-20, 16-18, etc. Or are adults but people say they look like kids. And I am attracted to/like NSFW stuff of some characters like that. I worry that it's wrong to do so, since they could be underaged and might very likely be so? And there's also an anime I watch where a character is 18 but still in high school, and I am definitely attracted to him. I have also been attracted to, fantasized, liked nsfw content of characters who are at first minors but then become 18 or age up to much older. That worries me a lot too because I'm afraid I'll see the underage version (especially if they look more or less the same) and feel attracted or find something sexualizing them and like it/not know. I'm asking this about fictional characters from any media too. So like, video games, anime, manga, etc. I do worry a lot about video games, like more realistic ones. Because they're based off real face models. And voice actors and stuff. Like, I worry if I were older and still attracted to or liking nsfw stuff of a video game character who is like 18 or just turned 18, or has a young voice actor idk that it'd be creepy? I just don't know if it's pedophilic and weird, especially if I was like 21/22+ or way older than these characters and supposed age ranges and still liking them in these ways or being introduced to new characters in these scenarios and feeling sexual/romantic attraction and having fantasies or liking nsfw. Because I think about it in real life, and like, it would be weird to be attracted to/sexually fantasize about someone whose age you don't know, who could very likely be a minor, who is 18/19 but in high school, or you knew them as a teen/kid and watched them grow up, or once they turn 18 you sexualize them (because I have done that with fictional characters), or are just much younger than you in general, right?
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I got harassed in an online game (marvel rivals for anyone curious) today bc I was “playing bad.” I think they realized I’m a female player too (my username makes it obvious) so it gave them more fuel to harass me. I kinda threw the match after all the rudeness. I obsess a LOT over what my teammates think of me, whether I play well, and one negative interaction and I’m spiraling for a long time. I reported the rude players but now I’m too afraid to play again. I feel OCD makes it really hard to play online bc i’m constantly obsessing over my errors and sometimes can’t enjoy the game at all. I also obsess over winning, and it becomes addictive in a way. Anyone else relate?
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Its been a long time since ive had spoken to people online. Ive liked socializing since i was way younger and i miss it so much. So-does anyone wanna be mutuals? Exclusively on nocd😭 it be nice to have more friends that have the same struggles i do, more to relate too. 🙏Preferably 19+ people since i just turned 20. 🙏I like a lot video games and like to draw and im in college so we can talk about whatever! :) comment if you’d be up to chat on here sometimes.
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