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- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 3y
I’ve also struggled with health anxiety and OCD related to health. Here are some ideas: 1. Understand that no one is truly certain about their health. Not even if a doctor has just declared them super healthy. Most people walk around with a feeling of certainty about their health, but that feeling is based on probability, not certainty. (“the headache I had yesterday was probably from skipping my afternoon coffee,” “I probably don’t have cancer since I don’t have any symptoms,” etc.) 2. Now that you know that people can be uncertain and still feel safe with their health, make it a goal to accept uncertainty. Promise yourself that you’ll work toward that goal. 3. Work with an ERP therapist if you can. Things you might do in therapy that you can also do on your own if needed: A) differentiate between reasonable health actions (e.g. going to the doctor once a year, disinfecting a cut once before putting on a bandaid, etc.) vs. compulsions (e.g. googling symptoms, asking for reassurance from family members or friends, taking your temperature repeatedly) B) develop response prevention messages for when you get the urge to do compulsions (e.g. “it might be serious, or it might be nothing. I don’t need to figure it out right now”) C) do exposures so that you can practice sitting with the anxiety without doing compulsions. These could include reading articles about people whose mild symptoms turned out to be serious, writing and reading a script about becoming ill, or engaging in a behavior your OCD deems unsafe (like going an hour without drinking water or only wearing one face mask when you go out) Health stuff is really hard to deal with because OCD can make it feel like you don’t have the ability to figure out if something is a serious symptom or if it’s all in your head. The only way to get a better radar for that is to treat your OCD, which involves taking what will feel like risks. The truth is that your OCD isn’t really protecting your physical health, it’s just giving you things to do to make it feel like you’re in control. The more you can accept the uncertainty, the closer you will be to better mental health and well-being. I hope that helps. Best of luck!
Wow thank you so much for this. It was very thoughtful and much appreciated! The more that I hear from others the stronger I feel in terms of not giving into the compulsions and managing my OCD. It can feel very lonely at times. Thank you so much
@Bri007 It’s a very isolating disorder! I’m so glad you’re reaching out for support and feeling stronger in resisting compulsions. You’ve got this!! :)
@Orange-Colored_Glasses I just want to say I’ve been struggling with health anxiety and somatic OCD the past few days, so i searched for a thread. Your comment helped me frame what is “reasonable” va compulsive. I bookmarked it for the future when my OCD makes me question if I need to worry. Thank you!
Thank you. It really means a lot! Just started therapy again after almost a year and a half without. I have a 1-year-old daughter now so the motivation and circumstances are much different than they've been in the past. I've also seen an increase in my OCD since having her And I don't want her growing up seeing me struggle as bad as I am.
That’s awesome that you went back to therapy. I’m sure that parenting a baby is incredibly stressful and thus a trigger for increased OCD symptoms. Be gentle with yourself! Your daughter might “meet” your OCD at some point, and that’s ok - she’ll learn that it’s ok to be scared sometimes, that no one is perfect, and that her parent is super strong and awesome!
Thank you! It really is a motivator to make sure that I'm more managed in terms of my anxiety for her. Your words mean a lot.
I am so sorry but know that you are not alone.
I have really been working on separating the emotional reaction to the habitual response in my mind that sets off false threats for every little thing that comes up for myself.
It takes time but it's worth noting when certain fears pop up whether due to Sensations or things you see or feel in regards to your body.
hello. i have been going through health scare obsessions for at least 5 years now and it terrifies me. i mainly fear of cancer. i have no reason to fear of cancer because it is not a predominant condition in my family. i have been to check ups for skin cancer and been told it was nothing which relieves me for a short period of time but then i start thinking of other cancer possibilities :( it doesn’t help that im a smoker to deal with the stress of adhd and ocd which just fuels the obsession of lung cancer. i know it would help my fear to stop smoking but thats easier said than done. i have only been a smoker for 3 years and its the only thing that helps right now. on top of this, my brain makes me believe that every intrusive thought i have WILL MANIFEST into existence just from thinking about it! this has scared me so much in the last 5 years and once i told my mum about it and she said "if you ever got cancer we would deal with it, its okay" but that didnt help it just made it worse and the possibility become more scarier! please help me.
I went from intrusive thoughts of hurting people, thinking I did horrible things and not remembering it like running people over with my car etc, to my brain trying to convince me I that I had split personality disorder to now health anxiety. The intrusive thoughts weren’t as bad as this. I’ll get physical symptoms like my heart racing, chest pain, can’t swallow. It’s been causing panic attacks but I’m constantly scared I’m dying. If my mole looks like it changed I freak out and think I have cancer. I had to get a stethoscope to listen to my heartbeat to make sure I don’t have an aortic aneurysm to buying a Fitbit to constantly check my pulse. I went to the ER bc I thought I was dying and now I’m paying a 2 thousand dollar bill when they say my heart is fine. It’s just exhausting.
I need help stopping my compulsive thoughts and worrying
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