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- Tulipwood
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- 3y ago
i completely agree, i think there is a life of no obsessive anxious thoughts but it’s not gonna happen with a pill, it’s gonna happen with you
Yes exactly!
I so agree with this… I was just thinking about the word I see a lot “recovery” -vs- managed. And I think that Managing OCD is more accurate. Just like with many chronic physical health conditions that are not curable, they can be managed and go in to remission, and at times be triggered and come out of remission due to lack of self care, major life events, or other illnesses putting strain on the body. Like I have no cure for my blood sugar issue that was so out of controll before I knew what I was dealing with that it almost cost me my joy years ago because it was affecting my performance so significantly. I do t take meds for it, but I do know what I need to do to manage it & have now gone long stretches of time where it is completely managed and when it flares up I know what to do to get my self back on track.
**almost cost me my job yrs ago Lol It did cost a lot of joy at the time too!
Both times I’ve had BAD relaps have been during big moments in my life! I had Harm OCD towards my now husband a few years back when he bought his first house and I left home for the first time! It lasted about a month. I’m now struggling with ROCD that came out of no where one month before my wedding AND signing for our first house together! I’ve been struggling for 2 months with this subtype. It’s been the hardest one for me so far.
Sorry about that, hope thing got better for you! I think with ocd I'd say recovery and not managing though, because ocd, like anxiety, depression, and other mental illnesses, is not something you have to live with and learn to manage for all your life. When I had anxiety I thought that that was just how my brain was going to be until I didn't have it anymore. I'm just as prone to it any other person now, it's not in me somewhere waiting to come out or anything. I'll say the same for ocd one day. :)
@Tulipwood And the beauty is that we can have completely different mindsets on this issue and that’s ok. Because the goal is not to all see it the same way, but to find what works best for each of us to achieve freedom form this incredibly challenging issue! ✌️ happy Saturday!
@Jeanie12 I am so sorry your going thru that! I am coming out of a big relapse that also came after a big moment in my life (health related, but was significant). I have since written out a list for my self and my family of things I can do for my self during times of major life changes, big health issues, or if I or they notice reappearance of OCD symptoms or behaviors associated with them. My goal is to catch or even prevent a lapse during those high triggering times to prevent a full blown relapse like I have recently gone thru. My list is super simple and pretty much common sense, but includes things I was not thinking about or doing for my self during the high trigger time because my mond was focused elsewhere and OCD is sneaky and came back in a different way and it was a full relapse before I even realized what was going on. Sending hugs and strength your way!
thanks for this
My pleasure :)
This absolutely true!! For me, my OCD has moments of relapse. My last relapse before the one I’m in now was over 3 years ago! I went 3 years without one intrusive thought or panic from an intrusive thought. As long as you do the work, I believe it can go dormant for some time! 💕 It is different for everyone but it is absolutely possible!
Yes and I think same goes for any hardship in life, it could make a comeback, but you learn your way around it and maybe at one point it never shows up again!
Yes so true thanks for spreading hope!
My pleasure!
It’s not just mental illnesses. Lots of illnesses need to be managed more than cured. Maybe that could help take some stigma away from mental health because it’s also common in bodily illness. 🤷🏼♀️ It can be really hard to swallow that something is “incurable” during diagnosis. That’s what’s great about your post. It’s a little easier to wrap one’s head around something being treatable but incurable when you realize that’s the reality for so many. 💜
Yeah there's so known, guaranteed cure for any mental illness but that doesn't mean there's no way out!
Does anyone else ever have this fear that maybe they are gonna be stuck with this illness forever? I keep getting mixed answers so I never know if OCD really can go away or not and even though I'm doing alot better now with medication, I sometimes get really sad and start thinking that I'm always gonna be like this and that I don't want a life with OCD
The premise behind managing your OCD is to become comfortable being uncomfortable. You’re not going to get rid of your anxiety, we had a disorder. But we can get use to it to the point where it’s just an annoyance in our life. But it takes time, patience, and commitment to getting better. You need to adopt good habits, talk to a therapist, maybe go on meds, you need to be open to options. Take it from me, I was fucking miserable two years ago, went through multiple meds and therapists until I found a system that worked. Now I’m rolling in all cylinders, close to graduating , interviewing for my dream job next week. It’s possible to control OCD, i still have symptoms, but after surviving the past 2 years it’s nothing I CNET handle. YOU CAN DO IT!
Is OCD Curable? It is commonly accepted that OCD is a chronic condition for which there is no cure. This idea is frequently used as an excuse for incomplete treatment, especially of compulsive rumination. Many patients who have completed ERP no longer do any physical compulsions but still ruminate. These patients are often told that the reason they’re not completely better is that OCD is a chronic condition, when the real reason is that no one has taught them how to completely stop ruminating. So, am I saying OCD is curable? Let’s answer that question with another question: Would you say someone who engages in absolutely no compulsion or avoidance has OCD? I would say they don’t. I would say that OCD consists of compulsion and avoidance, and that therefore, by definition, no compulsion or avoidance means no OCD. The counterargument I would expect is that this person would still have intrusive thoughts. But this argument falls apart when you break down ‘intrusive thoughts’ into (1) uncomfortable thoughts that occur to you, and (2) any engagement whatsoever with these thoughts — i.e., compulsive rumination. While an uncomfortable thought occurring to you isn’t controllable, this is also not a symptom of OCD; it’s a symptom of being human. And any engagement whatsoever with the thought is controllable and is a compulsion — and we said this person doesn’t do any compulsions. So would you say that someone who engages in absolutely no compulsion or avoidance — who sometimes has uncomfortable thoughts like all other humans, but doesn’t engage with them at all — has OCD? I would say they don’t, or at least they don’t right now. Thus, drawing a clear distinction between a thought occurring to you, and any engagement whatsoever with that thought, leads to the conclusion that a person can completely eliminate their OCD. So does this mean OCD is curable? Well, it’s definitely much more curable than people think it is. But if the word ‘cure’ means that something is permanently better, I wouldn’t say OCD is curable, because OCD will only remain better as long as compulsion and avoidance are completely eliminated. Consider the imperfect analogy of someone who gets their cholesterol under control by changing their diet.* Have they been cured? Only as long as they maintain the changes that made them better. While it might sound daunting, eliminating compulsion and avoidance does not entail an ongoing struggle. In fact, once a person sees that they have complete control over these behaviors, staying away from them becomes easy. This is why, in my mind, the goal of treatment is not only to eliminate current symptoms, but to help the patient see that they are completely in control of their behavior, including their mental behavior. That way even if they do fall back into compulsion or avoidance in the future, they know they have the ability to get back on track immediately. So I’m not sure whether I can say that OCD is ‘curable,’ but I know that it is possible to get completely better, to the degree that OCD is no longer a part of your life or even something you think about. And this is the standard that I think every patient and therapist should strive for. * The difference is that the dietary changes cause a change in the cholesterol, while the elimination of compulsion and avoidance are themselves the elimination of OCD.
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