How to deal with rocd in a new relationship? I keep feeling like I don't really like him and stuff. Every hobby he mentions that's a little nerdy or not really my thing I think that I must not like him at all and should just end it. It's making me so nervous and feel like I don't want to be with him and then instead of spending time with him, I'm obsessing over if I even like him and its making things unenjoyable for me. Any tips. Any advice. Please. This is my first relationship (at 20) so i haven't ever dealt with this before and I don't even know what is normal in a relationship since Ive never had one before. Please help.

Username: Romans510

Date posted: 585d ago

I’ve been through this same thing over and over again throughout the years! The main thing I’ve learned is to not put pressure on myself to have an answer right away. Lean into the uncertainty! Show yourself grace, you can take as much time as you need to decide if the relationship is really what you want, even if you’ve already committed. Your brain is trying to keep you safe, but it doesn’t know how to make you happy! Also, maybe look into Awaken Into Love on YouTube, she has some great words of wisdom

Username: xqrsljk

Date posted: 585d ago

I started experiencing my rocd in the beginning of my relationship too, feel you and hope that you will be better!😊