- Username
- OCDstephie
- Date posted
- 3y ago
This happens to me, too! You are not alone. I have been worried about death lately and had a panic attack yesterday when driving past a cemetery. Death is life’s biggest uncertainty and inevitability that stresses most people out, whether they have OCD or not. What works for me is focusing on the present and not worrying about the future. I know that’s easier said than done, but you really are not alone.
I deal with this every night and day and all I can say is to try your best to stay strong and not to let those thoughts get in the way of you living your life enjoying the moments you do have with your family I know it’s hard trust me it’s in my mind all the time too
I get that intrusive thought ALOT when I’m trying to fall asleep. My brain will be nice and calm and then all the sudden it goes “some day, you have to die. You can’t stop it.” And then panic ensues. The only thing that stops it is reminding myself that worrying isn’t going to change the outcome. No matter how much I think about it. So I might as well just live in the present moment
Been there. Acceptance is going to be your friend on this one. Death is inevitable. Nothing, absolutely nothing will stop it. It is the one certain we all have. If you get into a place of Accepting that and realizing you want to live and love and make as many memories as possible and that you aren't going to let this worry of death steal another moment from you... that's where you'll find your peace... by choosing to live!
*repost bc no one responded and I’m kinda desperate :( I’ve been having such bad OCD about the afterlife. I get triggers where it feels so real that I altered where I go when I die- such as like a scary void where I’ll never see my friends pets and family again. It feels so real where I almost believe this to be true and it’s making me so depressed and terrified. I’ve been feeling this way since June, and each trigger tournaments me for about a month until it switches to a different trigger about the afterlife. ERP has not been helping like it used too. It’s so hard to live like this, I don’t know what to do or how much longer I can take this.
I have a overwhelming feeling of death I have been dealing with the fear of a heart attack or a brain aneurysm even tho I’m in perfect health, it never goes away, does anyone have tips on how to deal with this?
Recently I’ve been finding it really hard to enjoy moments with my family because I am so worried about them all the time. When I’m with them it’s great and I love spending time with them but I can’t help but worry about all the things that could happen to them at any given moment. These feelings started becoming much stronger after I lost both my grandparents a couple years ago. I have never experienced that kind of grief before. I constantly am thinking about how I am so scared for when they die and I have a hard time accepting that the people I love won’t be around forever. Im scared I won’t survive on my own without them because they are so important to me I worry I will be consumed with the grief. And it’s not like my parents are old and withered they are still relatively young. It’s really distressing to feel that way about family all the time. I don’t think it’s normal to be thinking about this as often as I do but I guess that’s why I am here lol. Anyone else relate?
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