- Username
- OCDstephie
- Date posted
- 3y ago
This happens to me, too! You are not alone. I have been worried about death lately and had a panic attack yesterday when driving past a cemetery. Death is life’s biggest uncertainty and inevitability that stresses most people out, whether they have OCD or not. What works for me is focusing on the present and not worrying about the future. I know that’s easier said than done, but you really are not alone.
I deal with this every night and day and all I can say is to try your best to stay strong and not to let those thoughts get in the way of you living your life enjoying the moments you do have with your family I know it’s hard trust me it’s in my mind all the time too
I get that intrusive thought ALOT when I’m trying to fall asleep. My brain will be nice and calm and then all the sudden it goes “some day, you have to die. You can’t stop it.” And then panic ensues. The only thing that stops it is reminding myself that worrying isn’t going to change the outcome. No matter how much I think about it. So I might as well just live in the present moment
Been there. Acceptance is going to be your friend on this one. Death is inevitable. Nothing, absolutely nothing will stop it. It is the one certain we all have. If you get into a place of Accepting that and realizing you want to live and love and make as many memories as possible and that you aren't going to let this worry of death steal another moment from you... that's where you'll find your peace... by choosing to live!
Does anyone else have EXTREME anxiety about dying? I’m so fucking terrified. I think about it all the time.
Quick question... does anyone know if ERP can help with fear of dying or someone close to you dying? The thoughts consume me from the time I wake up until I sleep. I've always considered myself a woman of faith. Then I think to myself "If My Faith Was Strong, I Wouldn't Even Worry"... and then I start thinking that God is disappointed with me. I've had extreme panic attacks since I was young. It's controlled by rescue med. I've been on antidepressants. I know when I'm on the right one, the need for rescue med decreases. Am I alone in this fear? Does ERP help?
Whenever I’m out having fun with friends. I feel such shame, guilt, and sadness that I am having fun without my immediate family and start to think about the fact that they won’t be here with me one day. They have difficult lives so I feel guilt that I’m able to have fun while they deal with depression or anxiety. It consumes me to the point where I will want to leave what I’m doing and go home. Even when I am with them sometimes I hyper-fixate on the idea of them passing one day or soon and I become overwhelmed with sadness so I try to do lots of things to tune out those thoughts. Any ideas on how to cope with this?
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