- Date posted
- 561d ago
- Relationship OCD
Hi! I will try to give the best reply without reassurance :) It’s amazing that you met someone and enjoy them so much. I hope he feels the same feelings you do. I would say to definitely just take your time with it! I don’t think we really have to feel a spark for it to be real. It’s honestly a better feeling in my opinion when you don’t because you’re not entering into a relationship with rose colored glasses. You can see past the perfections and see who they really are. It sounds like you’re enjoying yourself, so just keep going! Follow your gut intuition. Does he have similar values? Does he appreciate you the way you do him? Pay attention to red flags, but enjoy the little gushy feelings too. ROCD will make you feel like you need an answer as to why your relationship doesn’t feel perfect, but imperfect relationships are the most real and all emotions are acceptable.
hi!! omg thank you so much for answering. that helps me a lot :)
@roselily Of course!!! Hope it goes well :) 🧡