Real arousal with hocd is this a thing cuz I get it

It’s not is it ????

Anyone please help

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Yeah, I can relate to it, that's the part I cannot accept. In my case I feel attracted to the same sex for some body parts, but immediately I've got lots of anxiety

I just think I’m gay

I think we need to be able enough to recognise the two things guys. One is our sexual orientation (which to certain extent we have to discover a bit more maybe) the other one, is anxiety and rumination connected to that. I mean gay and bisexual people, don't have our anxiety. I think the only solution guys is to accept that we may be, may be not, fully eterosexual. Accept the uncertainty and the brain will rest. That's our goal after all