Great my OCD has been triggered again because I read 'If you're not sexually attracted to someone you should let them go' but im not really ready for stuff like that and I want to take things slow since I've never had sex before

People without rocd will never understand 🙄 We don't have to do anything that we don't want to!

I hate those common beliefs! A lot of people just give up their relationship because one day they don't feel enough attracted, enough ready, enough interested, or simply don't enough for other people. Staying in a relationship means having also bad moments, moments of quietness, moments of apathy! We can't pretend we are always 110%! Ironic: I think that us with rocd are more committed than others, we fight for what we want, and we aren't scared anymore about bad days! Sorry I hope that isn't a rassicuration, I just need to trow it out my mind! If it triggers you or anything, tell me! I will delete it!

It didnt trigger me :) but yeah I noticed that as well. People move so fast these days and don't give it enough time for a connection to form. I've never ever had a connection with someone instantly, it always took time