I’m so heartbroken. After battling with hocd all last year and having the worst year of my life, my boyfriend has not let it go. He thinks I’m a lesbian and calls me a “lezzo” in fights. I’m so heartbroken. He won’t let this go and I forever feel like I’ve destroyed this relationship and it’ll never ever go back to being normal. :((((

you have not destroyed your relationship — his immaturity and from what i hear cruelty is what is “ruining” it. ocd is not something you can control and it is certainly not something you chose; if he knew that he would not treat you in such a gross manner. this is NOT a you problem and you should not be blaming yourself for his childish and nasty behavior

This isn’t a “you” issue !!! it’s a 1000% your boyfriend’s issue. Hes literally bullying you for your own suffering. Not only that but using homophobic slur as a way to tease you? It seems like he lacks ocd knowledge and compassion for your suffering! You should not be blaming yourself for any of it. Either he needs to have some serious growing up to do or someone else who’s going to support and believe in you in every step of the way!!

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HE DOESNOT DESERVE YOU

So you had hocd for a year? How did you beat it?