Hi Cory, women can feel arousal from alot of stuff, that does not represent your sexual orientation. Try not to let these intrusive thoughts dictate your choices. These is an article by nytimes on "what women want" if you want give it a read, might help
Yes! I’ve read and know that but of course OCD will not listen to logic or any rationalization so that’s why I would love to just add acceptance to that mix even if I know logically it’s common
A really great accidental exposure that has always stuck with me was seeing a bunch of tik toks of completely straight women confessing they watch lesbian porn… which I don’t even do! That opened my eyes that women seem to enjoy seeing another woman being pleasured so they can picture themselves being pleasured correctly instead of being railed 😂 It’s a really common thing with completely straight women!