The only aesthetic I go for when it comes to that stuff is height a nice size that’s it. Everything else Hass to be personality the guy Hass to try to be different and not like every other mindless fuck machine that’s out there. But I’ve always like the idea of pleasing the guy just cause I’ve always imagined things from his perspective because I like the idea of wondering what it’s like for a guy when it’s not just physical and the fact that they are not taught to express emotion makes their emotions more significant to me if that makes sense
When I said aesthetic I meant like females, nothing about their personality or vibes. And yeah I kinda imagine things from his view too just to see what he’s enjoying but it’s more of a third person point of view and when I fantasize about memories it’s more the feelings.
@PinkLotus Huh. I always imagine his actual thoughts so I guess first person?
@Bookworm91 It’s different for everyone, I like knowing what my boyfriend thinks of me as well
At least you’re not some loser 30 year old virgin 😓
Everyone is different ! Virgin does not equal loser
Sorry not trying to spam. I’m sure you will get there though. Intimacy is hard. Don’t have to have sex to know that
Thank you ❤️
I just want you to know you aren’t alone and I feel very similar to you. You can do this and you can be happy with your boyfriend!! Easier said then done but try to ignore the thoughts. The more you ruminate the more you give them power. I believe in you.
Thank you so much! I believe in you too ❤️