You two definitely need to communicate. Clearly neither of your needs are being met
Actually it is a little strange! Because if we are togheter alone, we get along soo well! And even if we go out with friends and i'm the only girl! It is all perfect! The problem came out when there are other females friends! (And I'm not asking to avoid them!! I just want to have more attentions than them!) We talked a lot about this, he understands me, he think that we can solve this, but I know he thinks that he is right and i'm just being too jealous!
@eoid Is it possible ROCD is making you jealous? (zero judgement, asking from one OCD sufferer to another
@Kaylaaaa I don't think so... well not in that case at least! I am really a not jealous girl usually! I wouldn't be jealous if he kiss someone else, without knowing her before and after! Are the attentions that he keeps giving to other girls that makes me feel really bad; like "not important enough for him to be wanted more than others girls"... it's like not being someone special for him!
He has really avoidant components when we talk about our needs, I is like he create a wall, because he is afraid of manipulation! (At least, this is my interpretation!) He is not doing this with bad intents, so he is not wrong, just as I am not wrong! Therefore we need a compromise!!