It turns out he give attentions to other girls, just to feel better about himself. Can you help me find a compromise? Remember the post about me stressing because my bf was giving too much attentions to his female friends? He is the kind of guy that can really understand and listen women; the sensible one that the girls compare to theirs bfs, asking "why can't you be more like him!!" And I am super stressed because of that Today I talked to my psychologist. She told me that he has no bad intent, he doesn't want to cheat or anything like that. He just want the "medal", the "trophy". He like feeling like the men described up, it is like a compliment for him, so he keep searching it! I Don't know what to think about it. I switched from jealousy to pity for him. In both cases, I can't stand the fact that when we are together with his friends, I am put after all the others female. I know that he wouldn't cheat, but for me attentions are everything, and it Is like saying "you are less important". I talked with him, but it is his personality, it is difficult to change it! Now my psychologist and him both agree that the solution is find a compromise. Do you guys have some ideas of what that could be, without making him changing to much, and at the same time that make me feels happy again? What could be a compromise in this situation? I tried to find some, but my rocd today is really bad, so it's being hard... I could really use some advices!!