Weird but does anyone else “prefer” rocd obsessions about their significant other not loving you rather than you not loving your s/o?

Yes

My ROCD stems from political differences which cause a lot of anxiety. My wife can let these things slide but my brain struggles.

Gotta agree with the obsessions and resist compulsions even though it's ridiculously uncomfortable

100%, i wish my theme would change back :(

Absolutely. I wish it would switch. 🥺