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I think what happens is I see an attractive women and that is my normal so it feels natural (Even tho my ocd liked to tell me it’s forced) but if I see an attractive man I almost just assume that I’ll find them attractive, and then I ask myself “do you find them attractive?” And the answer is always “oh god yes…” followed by a chain of anxiety and dread. Like my attraction towards men doesn’t ever make me feel good, i have to ask myself “did that make you feel good? Later on and it always feels like a yes and then it’s again followed my anxiety
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@Human Potential But sometimes it feels like the attraction to men is automatic. But then it’s really confusing because it’s normal to notice is anyone is ‘good looking’ so it feels like Because I notice that that I am attracted to them? If that makes sense?
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@Human Potential I was happy and content. I really was, and all my family and friends could see it. I was in deep love and now when I look back my brain just says “nah yoh werent it was all just compulsive love”
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What if you are not sure if it started from a thought or not? Sometimes I feel like it’s the feeling and then the thoughts as well, do you know what that might mean?
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@ironmike I get what you’re saying, it’s like you have the feeling followed by the intrusive thoughts?
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@BradOCD Which makes it seem more real?
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@ironmike What I mean by that is sometimes I notice that a man is attractive and then start getting Gronial responses which is after followed by the intrusive thoughts. Sometimes the order can be completely diffrent as well tho, as in intrusive thought first then groinal response etc…
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@BradOCD Yeah exactly
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@BradOCD Do you also get it like that sometimes. Because it can be really confusing
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Yeah definitely now more than ever. And now it’s started infecting my memories by convincing me I was never in love with my gf and was never attracted and was just caught up in it all. Even tho I know I found her attractive
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I’m just gonna try my best to not give a shit and expect the thoughts. Staying at home doing nothing definitely won’t help it’s fkn holidays let’s just enjoy ourselves bro
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Ughhhhhh it feels like I can’t tell between false attraction or attractive 😭 :/ idk I just saw some pics of joji and artist that makes music when he was younger (it was a post on insta) and on one of them I thought oh he looks cute here, but no I’m like omg but idk in what way tho but it felt like not false attraction like I thought or meant it in another way and I. Felt that and then kinda freaked out bc idk if it’s weird and then I felt groinals and *sigh*
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hey guys, i’m almost fully healed in my socd journey but what’s stopping me is the false atractions. i get them almost 24/7 at this point and to every thing. they feel real and i hate them they make me feel disgusted. they also make me feel like hot and gross but then i see people saying thats what attractions feel like, but i have felt so much attraction to the opposite gender pre all of this and it felt nice and enjoyable not digustinf. i’m also getting false memory trying to show me ‘signal’ from my childhood to prove i’m gay amd i truly don’t know if they’re real. it’s so degrading and at this point i feel like govining up. pelesse if you have any advice or even if your going through the same thing just let me know. ocd is so terrible
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How can you tell if it’s SOOCD, being in denial or sexual orientation fluid change? I really really hope it’s just SOOCD but I suffer so much from the loss of attraction to opposite gender and severe‘false’ attraction to same gender. It makes me feel sick and want to cry every time I have false attractions. I find it so difficult I feel my entire life has flipped and been destroyed.
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