Saraa
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- 3y
RedyrooRedyroo
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- 3y
Okay so first of all you need to stop comparing yourself to other couples. This is a common trait with rocd and I tend to do it too. Also it’s pretty normal to want to stay with family on xmas day. If his friends are at his house then it would make sense.
whatadooowhatadooo
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- 3y
I'm sorry:\ have you seen if you guys could create a compromise? Half the day with his friends, half the day with you and your family?
SaraaSaraa
- Date posted
- 3y
Thank you! Too late tho! We had lunch with our respective parents, and the programm to see eachother was after dinner! But he preferred his friends.. and he keeps saying that he usually see them because he doesn't have nothing better to do, not because he has a deep bond with them!
whatadooowhatadooo
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- 3y
@Saraa I'm sorry, it's good to follow through on plans.
RedyrooRedyroo
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- 3y
@Saraa What do you mean he “preferred his friends?”
whatadooowhatadooo
- Date posted
- 3y
@Redyroo He ditched established dinner plans with her to go to his friends house instead
SaraaSaraa
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- 3y
@whatadooo Yes exactly! He said that he doesn't even want to see his friends, he just wanted to ice skate (his friends were going so...) i love ice skating, but I was too far to go with him were his friends decided to go (+2 hour in car, only to arrive)... I mean, at Christmas you should stay with who means more "family" for you; it hurted seeing him not so intrested in me!
RedyrooRedyroo
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- 3y
@whatadooo Ahh thank you whatadoo, okay I really don’t agree with that, he should’ve stuck with the dinner plans imo and i’d be pretty mad too if he chose friends over dinner plans with me
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