Anyone have advice on how to spice up a relationship. Is it true when u do more stuff with your partner you fall in love more

More help sis, 1. so did you ever get the feeling for a couple of hours as if you didnt care. 2. Did you ever have dreams of cheating on your boyfriend? 3. Do you ever get anxious when you think about your bf? 4. Whenever you invisioned him did you sometimes invision someone else you thought you were but actually it was your bf? I need help

@squishybat Like when you try to invision your bf your brain is like oh this guy looks better but ur bf looks just like that so its actually him

@squishybat Its getting hard my brain puts me in scenarios of me loosing feelings. And its like i dont wanna loose that and then my brain is like are you sure? So much doubt

@squishybat I just had another dream of cheating i hate this

@squishybat I hate the anxietyyyyy

@squishybat You ever have dull moments when u think abt ur bf then freak out

@squishybat U ever had those moments when it was hard to hold on?

@squishybat Sometimes i have sure happy moments hes the one but then when i check ny feelings sometimes im just dull about it then my brain is like what if he isnt the one

@squishybat I just had a dream of cheating. But idk if it was a mix of my bf being way too tall and having tattoos?...eh?

@squishybat Did you ever in ur dreams wake up and kinda like the intimacy?

@squishybat My brain always keeps saying i want more attention but i just dont want to seem annoying to him.

@squishybat Like has your brain ever thought up sad scenarios of you breaking up with him and telling everyone? Is that just the brain thinking negatively

@squishybat Do i just need to learn how to love myself better in order to stop seeking attention?

@squishybat So what do i do to stop seeking attention

@squishybat Now my brain is like he will fall in love with you then you will drop him. Thats not me this sucks and then my brain keeps repeating i dont love him

@squishybat We just got into a huge fight over a week ago. Since then my anxiety got worse rocd is worse. My brain thinks i should just leave him. And my thoughts about him feel idk sad? Dull?

@Anonymous help Like my brain will say im leaving *inster his name* but then when i think about him im like this is it.

@squishybat Im getting angry at him recently. Like stone cold its not like me its like my gaurd is starying to go up

@squishybat My feelings fir him rn r like bestfriend since he hurt me. But theb my brain is like husband feelings or bestfriend? Mostly its husband but idk

@squishybat So my bf and i recently got into a huge fight and he said he doesnt know what love is. Idk if im dissapointed rn or heartbroken but my feelings are kinda dull if that makes sense like idk if im just upset or sad idk. Like i feel like still attached but dull

@squishybat Do you think my brain thinks of him as a brother because hes so comfortable to be around?

@squishybat Have you ever obsessed over ick moments with your bf? Like me and him we were laying in bed having a good time i felt so safe and happy. Then we go out to get food and i get a slight ick moment and it ruins everything with my brain

@squishybat Its like i want him and then now i just have this huge doubt all of sudden because of that one ick moment and its making me angry

@squishybat How do you get rid of it. Like its stuck onto him when i think of him

@squishybat Can u look at my recent

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