Hello. Does anyone have tips for how to know if you're actually ready to end a relationship that's in a complicated place or if that would just be an attempt to escape uncertainty? I've been wondering if I should just give up on the idea of a serious relationship with someone because even though I know it's what I want it's been difficult being patient while the other person figures out if they want the same. I can't tell if moving on will be the right thing in the long run or if it's just going to bring me temporary comfort and I should instead work on being comfortable with the uncertainty.

I had many complications in my relationships and now realizing they were wrong for me and some were nothing but huge mistakes because the other person had so many problems and terrible habits and emotions and issues and medical issues that ruined everything and ended very horrible seriously bad and I have tons of regrets and feel so stupid to go through terrible things and make terrible choices especially when people are compulsive liers and do things that would end a relationship and are very selfish

I have the same issue

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All I know I have nothing but regrets and disappointment and wasted my life on these people unfortunately and it’s ridiculous so in the last couple years I’ve been alone and isolating and isolated from everyone and everything and I like it so much better and I just need more support and friends that’s making me upset that o can’t find good friends and I think I do and some hurt me and ghosts me

Do you wish you made one of these relationships work? I’ve met a great person for me but I obsess about certain physical qualities about him. I feel so guilty

I am technically friends but they drive me crazy constantly with there bad behaviors and lies and no communication

I don’t want or need a relationship I never had one work out technically ever