I feel like I don’t like him anymore , I can think of other guys but I can’t fantasize about him at all and it feels like I don’t want to be physically intimate with at all. I was reading old letters and I romanticized us so much but now it feels like I don’t think those things about him at all. I feel like this isn’t rocd because it feels calm and true. But I want to feel love for him again and attraction

Please I need someone to help me

I feel that way off and on myself. It's perfectly normal.

I’m just used to always feeling some piece of me wanting to fight but lately it doesn’t feel like that at all

I feel this as well. I think it’s kinda normal. We are human. And relationships are hard work and not like the movies lol

Our relationship is going well, it’s me struggling and that’s why I feel scared

@PinkLotus I get it. That’s how mine is too. I think im starting to have ROCD more present than SOOCD because all of these what if’s of past relationships are popping up as well as me thinking about new guys.

@PinkLotus Ugh, I know exactly what you're sayin., and it's so hard to talk about it when things are going well.