I feel like I don’t like him anymore , I can think of other guys but I can’t fantasize about him at all and it feels like I don’t want to be physically intimate with at all. I was reading old letters and I romanticized us so much but now it feels like I don’t think those things about him at all. I feel like this isn’t rocd because it feels calm and true. But I want to feel love for him again and attraction

Our relationship is going well, it’s me struggling and that’s why I feel scared

@PinkLotus I get it. That’s how mine is too. I think im starting to have ROCD more present than SOOCD because all of these what if’s of past relationships are popping up as well as me thinking about new guys.

@PinkLotus Ugh, I know exactly what you're sayin., and it's so hard to talk about it when things are going well.

@OCD33 Yes I’ve definitely flipped over from soocd to rocd but with all the killed attraction of soocd. It’s scary

I’m just used to always feeling some piece of me wanting to fight but lately it doesn’t feel like that at all