It’s hard for me to feel the normal fuzzy feelings about my relationship because I’m so anxious about it all the time :( usually I like to look at photos of him before bed at night and stuff like that but right now I have to try to not think of him so I can be calm enough to fall asleep. It both makes me feel guilty because I know he’s not feeling that way, and it’s hard for me because usually those good feelings are a really nice part of my life :(. When the relationship feels distant and weird and anxious and in my head I think he hates me, emotionally it feels almost like as if we broke up. And I just have to roll with those feelings all the time… it’s hard. I miss the fuzzy feelings

Sort of same problem here. But I'm the issue not him. I've just been digging deep into our dating years of all the negative feelings I had, then I wonder why I even married him in the first place. But, I did. And we actually are a really good team together and I do love him, but these old thoughts and feelings have seemed to surface when I thought I got rid of them years ago. So now I'm battling them again. It's so annoying, cause I do really want to be with him, but my issues are blocking the warm and fuzzy, I'm just trying to move thru them... again.

im in the same boat as well. i was perfectly fine until we got to our 2 years (around that time). i have a ton of stress at home and i cant say why this happened but i just got random thoughts that i didnt love him anymore. it felt so real and it still feels real. it sucks really bad. i get so anxious when he texts me. he has no idea what goes on in my head and id feel so so guilty telling him. its so hard to explain to someone