- Username
- LifeGoesOn
- Date posted
- 2y ago
Stay strong and hang on
Hey friend, hang in there. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Break ups are so rough. What helped me most was focusing on friends and my interests and really diving into what I want to pursue in this life as an individual. Maybe he’ll come around, maybe he won’t (exposure!) but you are strong and you will overcome. Be gracious with yourself too. You’re hurting and it’s okay to hurt. There’s not a magic time frame for healing. Feel better 💛
Thank you for this! Either way I’ll be okay, just getting there seems like a very uphill climb right now 😓
He'll be back
This 🥺❤️❤️
Hi, first of all I wanted to say im sorry and I hope you feel better. i understand how you feel, because in my situation, i was your bf. When I was having mental breakdowns everytime I saw my bf at that time, I knew that I had to seperate myself from him even if I still love him very much. I had to clean everything he touched because I was feeling anxious and could not go to normal without cleaning. The day I had a panic attack and the worst of anxiety of all those I had, I decided to breakup. My mental health was going down and I had to take care of myself. And now, with OCD practically non existent, I would go back together with him even though I am scared that I will still have anxiety and panic attacks everytime I see him. We broke up 6 months ago and everytime I think of him, and reminding me that i wasnt a mistake breaking up but I still love him and kill myself everyday because I left an amazing guy. I hope you feel better and your bf too. I think, when he feels better, he will get back to you.
Wow I’m so sorry you had to go through this. I totally understand the need to take care of yourself, you need to put yourself first. In my case, I just wish he could put himself first with me. I hope you’re right in saying that when he feels better he will come back, I must trust the process ❤️ thank you
@LifeGoesOnSF I trust the process too, sometimes people need to be alone for a while to understand what they really need/want and i think he will get bsck, stay strong❤️
This exact same thing is happening to me right now. I don't know how things will shake out for either of us, but we don't really have control over that. We'll be okay though.
We will be okay ❤️
My boyfriend just dumped me because he lost feelings and thinks we’re too hard and it’s because of my anxiety and ROCD:(( I’m a mess rn guys. I love him and I lost the best part of me. Does anyone have any advice for breakups
My heart hurts:( my bf gave up on me Bc of my mental health and I feel I’m not enough. How do I heal? I gave him everything when I didn’t even have anything to give myself:(
My boyfriend recently broke up with me almost two months ago and it really hurts but I really can’t help but miss him. I haven’t talked to him in 2 weeks and I doubt he’ll ever reach out to talk to me soon. I loved him so much and I can’t even describe how much it hurts not having him in my life. Our relationship used to be really really great and then things fell apart. My anxiety and ocd keep convincing me these extreme hypotheticals like that he’s so much happier without me now even though I don’t have any reason to really think that. Or that he doesn’t miss me at all. My heart is just really hurting. I miss everything about him
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