Has anyone ever been in a situation where someone has made a joke but it was about your theme? I’m having a hard time not going down the rabbit hole of, “why would they say that to me if it wasn’t a sign or something?” Like why did I have to hear that?! How do you deal with that type of situation?

Sexual Orientation OCD

lennygirl

Date posted: 3y

Oh, absolutely. Someone told me my glasses made me look like a “lesbian librarian”. I freaked out.

absmcgee

Date posted: 3y

Ugh yeah. I said to my friend “now all I need is a husband!” And as she walked away I’m pretty sure she said “or a wife” and I’m like wtf why did she say that.

lennygirl

Date posted: 3y

@absmcgee Did you ask her why she said that?

absmcgee

Date posted: 3y

@lennygirl No, we were both walking to our cars

forestfox

Date posted: 3y

Yes, definitely. I accidentally kissed my best friend in 4th grade (female-female) and my other friends will occasionally make ‘lesbian’ jokes and then I freak out.

S.verv20

Date posted: 3y

A friend of mine said in front a bunch of people and in front of my boyfriend, you are lesbian like I don’t know why he said that but it triggered me like hell because why he is saying that probably because it’s means something…..

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