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So unfortunately that’s the idea. OCD clings to the uncertainty and makes you NEED an answer. That’s why we have to accept that we may never know our identities
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Are you able to talk?. I appreciate your support 🙏
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@Ihateocd83 Yeah! What’s up?
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@kdito It feels as tho I might be bisexual but don't know how to handle it. I think maybe I could be with a man. But it just doesn't seem right for me and repulses me. But not all the time. Which is confusing and I don't always find women attractive and then I do. It's just all so confusing 😔
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@Ihateocd83 If you have Instagram I suggest looking at the post @treatmyocd just added. It says “how can it feel so real” and there is a really good caption with post
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@kdito OK thanks alot
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@kdito Is it on nocd?
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@Ihateocd83 @treatmyocd is the Instagram page and it’s NOCD Instagram page.
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@kdito Thanks
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@kdito I couldn't find it 😔
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I don’t know if you are a religious person but the thing that helps me the most with all this is this. “ I am first and foremost a son of God with a divine nature and destiny.” Sometimes when I am good I don’t care about labels. Labels are stupid, and not for the gay communities reasons either. I guess I do like one label though. Son of God. Pray and ask God for help to feel the way you used to.
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My boyfriend is ftm, and I’m very supportive of him and his journey with gender. It opened a lot of conversations between us about each others gender/sexuality. I’ve known for a long time that i’m pan, but I’ve struggled a lot with my own gender. My OCD causes me to doubt myself a lot, one day i feel hyper feminine and have no desire to identify as a man, but the next day I am extremely dysphoric about my body/hair/voice and wonder if I’m ftm as well? and then it goes away the next day. Some days I don’t even feel feminine OR masculine. I spend a lot of my time ruminating over if i’m trans, and abt the possibility of me spending the rest of my life either not knowing, or settling for whatever’s easiest for myself and everyone around me. I don’t know if I actually believe I’m a man, or if I’m pretending, or if it’s just in my head. Its like I don’t know what to trust since my opinion is different every day, and it feels like I can’t trust my own intuition. It’s starting to affect my sex drive, my sleep, my self confidence, and my self image. It’s really confusing me and I’m wondering if anyone can relate or has some advice. Thank you:)
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I’m trying to live with uncertainty but it doesn’t feel right. The “I may or may not be bi/gay” really sucks because I can’t stop ruminating, analyzing, or checking. This especially sucks because I feel like literally EVERYTHING in my life leads to the fact that I’m a fraud which feels horrible. I can’t even talk to my friends the way I used to without feeling like I’m lying about myself. The false attraction and loss of attraction to men is literally horrible because now I feel like the life i fantasized for myself isn’t something I want.
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Hi everyone, I’ve been really anxious lately, and I just need to get this out of my head. Someone recently told me that maybe I’m bisexual — that I might be more sexually attracted to women, but more romantically attracted to men. That bisexuality is not 50/50. And ever since I heard that, I’ve been spiraling. The thing is: I don’t want this to be true. It scares me. I don’t feel romantic attraction to women, I’ve never wanted to be in a relationship with one. But yes, I get aroused by fantasies involving women — and that makes me feel broken or like I’ve been lying to myself. I love my boyfriend deeply, I don’t want to lose him. I want to feel fully connected to him, physically and emotionally. But now I’m stuck in this obsessive loop of questioning: “What if I’m just in denial?” “What if I’m not really straight?” “What if this is why my libido is low?” It’s exhausting, and I don’t know if this is OCD, anxiety, or if something is fundamentally wrong. Has anyone else felt this split — romantic feelings for one gender, sexual feelings for another? I feel so alone and scared. Thanks for listening.
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