hi! um, so i’ve been told with rocd that a relationship means falling in and out of love a bunch of times, but is that supposed to happen like when we get on a fight or something? or it can be like just one day or a few days i’m not really feeling all the spark and i’m not like super excited about everything and almost feel like i’m not attracted to my partner for a few days? i mean it all goes back to “normal” after a few days but feeling (or not feeling it lol) can be super scary

Hey on Spotify there is a. Podcast called ocd and anxiety show … this issue is specifically addressed …the episode is number 52 entitled relationship OCD and dating It’s only like 20 minutes ❤️💜

thank you, i’ll check it out

That's so true

Listen to AnxiousLoveCoach, she says that is it totally normal to feel sort of bored sometimes! Maybe years ago we didn’t have social media, so how did people communicate? Have fun? Etc? It’s normal to feel bored, but I think it’s our own thoughts that tell us “oh I’m bored that must mean ___”.. like no it’s okay!