I find it helpful to know that most people have questioned or thought about their sexuality in some regards. I used to think that just the question means your sexuality is set but there’s so much about what you want and how you want to live that goes into sexuality and i find that so helpful! For a long time I thought it was like I’m doomed to be gay even though I didn’t feel like that’s who I am or want to be and felt powerless but now I feel like I’m finally understanding that orientation is fluid and you do have some choice in how you want to live. If I don’t want to have sex with a woman then why am I forcing that on myself?