I have OCD that pushes me to confess things to my wife. I have been doing this for years. We fought today because I did a confession that while I was exercising I had brought my dog out to hang with me. I was doing a sit-up and slightly lost my balance as I was on a exercise ball. Nothing that would have caused harm to my dog. For me it became a major issue because my time with him outside was not perfect. I confessed this to my wife which caused the fight. She has become completely intolerant of my OCD confessing rituals. After a but of time away I told her how sorry I am that I bring this to the table. I told her that she does not deserve this. We are going thru a divorce and this is a major reason why we are. My confessing. It’s impossible to articulate how awful OCD is and the need to find relief. My wife told me and has told me how completely selfish and narcissistic I am because of my confessing. She thinks that I have made her become a monster because of how my confessing makes her react. She said that she hopes that I am always going to be single because no one should have to deal with this behavior from a partner. She said I am abusive and that this relationship is abusive. I feel so awful about myself and could not feel more sick about how I am as an individual. Anyone else ever have any conversations like mine with their SO?