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I know what you mean. I think the helpful kind of acceptance sounds like “Yes, that event happened. I can learn from my mistakes, have compassion for myself and others, and do better in the future.” The harmful kind of acceptance sounds like “Yes, that event happened, and it makes me a terrible person. I’m doomed to feel awful forever.” Helpful acceptance allows us to move forward into a brighter future.
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I always say it, people out there without ocd can't understand our problems! But in a certain way they are right! Acceptance is important!! I mean, if you want to heal; you have to accept your toughts, and the fact that sometimes you will feel bad! (Don't accept your ocd/your condition tho) Anyway, remember that there are a lot opportunities that can make you improve and heal! I did got out of ocd! Well, I still have sometimes my bad days; but I'm not stressing over it 24/7 anymore!
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You can have peace through Jesus Christ our lord and savior he loves you and wants you to tell him your problems
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I had pretty bad ocd in grade school, repetitive actions, some really gross habits of feeling discomfort, ill spare details. I still do this thing with my fingers based on the specific number my ocd chose, when in an uncomfortable or awkward situation. It takes me some time to subside certain thoughts and let then go, but as the years have gone on I know how much Ive survived and jt has helped me to detach from the feeling of uncertainty. Im not perfect but I am a normal functioning adult with a steady job, a group of friends, and a loving partner. I leave the house on a regular basis though I still have tendencies that could label me as an introvert (even though i know what it really is) I didn’t know what this thing was even called I was only ever treated for anxiety.. the thing about getting older is you learn of who you are, become familiar with your surroundings, you learn what to expect in general, and life gets easier, so too does the ocd subside if you let it
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I was watching a video and the guy is talking about OCD in general. He says you are supposed to say “I guess it will happen” when you have an OCD fear or intrusive thought. But my thing is if my brain is telling me I have to be on guard or else I will be a danger to children I’m just not sure how I can say “I guess it will happen”. Does anybody have any thoughts on this?
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I hit the SOS, and I’m just scared. If I sit with the uncertainty, then I could honestly sit here all day crying. I just can’t accept I’m not a bad person and ruined my relationship, no matter how much grace I give myself. What makes me feel better is knowing that I’m not a bad person, and trying to rationalize my mistakes - understanding everyone makes them. But then it feels like i can’t validate my good feelings because it’s “bad” and I should just accept I COULD be a bad person. It honestly sends me into a full panic. Please help!!!!!!
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I've been told a lot that in order to get better, we need to tolerate uncertainty, which yea I get that and I'm trying every day more and more to reach that point!! But I've also been told that we need to tolerate uncertainty AND "our worst fears becoming true". Like how does that work, especially with POCD, OCD about a///ault, SA and all of that? Like that is really difficult for me and I don't really understand how I'm supposed to just shrug stuff like that off
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