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- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 3y
My advice to help with ruminating would be to say I don’t have to figure that out or to say maybe, maybe not, and to try to not let if affect you.
It 100% is a compulsion. I recommend looking up Dr. Michael J. Greenberg’s writings. He talks a lot about rumination, where it stems from, and how to eventually stop ruminating. (All writings are public access and include exercises as well!)
It’s a compulsion for sure!! It was always my worst one and it took a long time to learn how to recognize when I was ruminating and how to shut it down cause it felt almost automatic! But it is possible! You “just” have to accept the possibility that the thing you are scared of might be true … not that is necessarily is true but that it might be and you can never know! Take distance from your thought try maybe even agreeing with them in a sarcastic manner ( sureee/ yeah / ecsactly / that’s so true) or smt. and then redirect your thoughts to a game, a movie, singing along to a really good song or mind exercises like naming a celeb for every letter of the alphabet or connecting characters in your fave shows (fx this guy is married to this girl and that girl is friends with this character) see if you can connect them all🤷♀️ idk just something that you are interested in (The thought might still float in the back of your head that’s fine you don’t engage and if you feel your self starting to then agree with the thought and try to continue with what you were doing) Also I like to have embrace unceartanty reminders on my screen savers and stuff. Because sometimes rumination can feel like solving a problem and like it’s life or death to figure this out now but I like to remind myself that’s not true Again even if you try really hard and practice all of these techniques you are probably going to slip up.. just recognize it and move on it doesn’t matter if it’s not perfect. It takes practice and I believe in you!!
Yesss it can be . If you’re switching up thoughts to avoid one of the other then yess. Bcuz I tend to just replace it with something to cover up that triggering thoughts that leads me to compulsively think over and over . But I can help it so I just ruminate :(
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My biggest is ruminating, i talk and talk and over share with myself and others Like what are some exposures?
I've been doing well the past month in cutting down on compulsions and have been feeling better however, last night I had a set back that carried on into today. I had gotten very poor sleep (4ish hours) and then something triggered my memory. I think with the sudden anxiety spike and lack of sleep I didn't have the strength to ignore my compulsions. Last night and today I've realised I've gone back into rumination and mentally reviewing the event excessively again and comparing my situation to other people's, but most of the times that I start going down these rabbit holes I don't even realise I'm doing it? Also been fixating a bit on the fear that I've ruined my progress and that I will fall back into the deep end of it all again, that I have done so much work getting myself out of, although trying my best to not be too discouraged. Does anyone have any advice on how to deal with rumination more specifically?
I've been told it's impossible to "push intrusive thoughts away", but also that rumination is a compulsion. What is rumination vs. overthinking? And how do I stop ruminating properly and healthfully?
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