Does anyone else feel like not confessing is immoral? The thing is, the events I recalled could have been remembered wrong in a state of extreme panic and I decided to stop questioning whether it happened because it doesn’t really serve me / reflect me / my values. I’m taking the first step towards healing :) But occasionally I fear that just moving on with my life is not a moral thing to do.
YES this is something I have been struggling with for years and I’m so glad to see someone else say this too. There are some things I will never talk about or admit just in case it wasn’t real?? It’s so confusing
I guess we just have to forgive ourselves if we don’t remember the specifics of a memory and not let it affect our current life. Maybe one day we can confide in someone who we trust will understand our potential mistake, but for now, we can try to sit with the discomfort and have compassion ? ❤️