it’s like now I’m starting to notice “cute” guys... this was never me a few months ago. now i try and avoid looking at gents all the time... but my mind plays trick games with me... any advice?

Your mind will trick you into thinking you’re attracted to someone when you’re afraid of being attracted to someone. Try not figure out if you’re attracted to the same sex and be ok with not knowing for certain. Also bring your mind to the present moment and allow your thoughts to come and go without latching on to them.