- Date posted
- 3y ago
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- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 3y ago
I watched a lot of Ali Greymond’s videos on YouTube, and I thought they were great. I think watching her videos were most of what I needed.
- Date posted
- 3y ago
Were you your own therapist?, did you succeded?
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- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 3y ago
@Anonymous Yes, I was my own therapist, and yes I succeeded. Eventually, I went with NOCD, but by the time I got there, by listening to Ali Greymond’s YouTube videos, I was really 80% of the way there and moving to full recovery. No reason you can’t also do that. I’m a fan of having a therapist, but put it this way - only you can get yourself out of this at the end of the day. The therapist will help guide you, but this comes down to how you’re willing to change your ways of thinking. Through Ali’s videos, I learned how my compulsions (a) don’t provide any resolution to my fear and (b) only serve to add fuel to my fear. Compulsions include mental ones, like analyzing, trying to “figure it out”, “trying to solve it”, seeking closure, expecting an answer / resolution, ruminating, using logic, weighing pros and cons, self-reassurance, Googling, researching. You need to learn how to trust in just letting go. Stop getting caught up in trying to answer questions concerning your fear - let it go, you’re not going to find an answer. The more you abandon your need for resolution, the more you’ll recover. I learned this exclusively from Ali and didn’t need antidepressants even to get the message across. And—this is very important—be willing to change how you go about “fixing” your problems. Do NOT try to use your OCD way of handling things to try to get out of OCD. You need to learn how to cope differently. This requires fundamental change. Your message here is somewhat driven by OCD thinking because you’re seeking reassurance, which is a compulsion, to confirm what you already know: you don’t absolutely need a therapist to recover. But it doesn’t matter how many times I say that, because you have OCD, you will always have a doubt and another “what if”. Be willing to change.
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- Staff
- Date posted
- 3y ago
I am sorry to hear that you are struggling. I wish everyone could have access to this needed care. I would suggest Nathan Peterson as someone to look up on youtube (he does a lot of education surrounding OCD) also following NOCD on social media platforms is a good way to get education about ERP, we also have lives and provide lots of support through support groups and this community. Natasha Daniels is another good one to look up. Having a therapist well trained in OCD and ERP is recommended and would help with extra support and to ensure things are being done correctly- but until you are able to do that I think following some of the OCD specialists online is a great start and really educating yourself about the illness and how ERP works.
- Date posted
- 3y ago
I really thank all of you for your comments, words of empowering, and all of the resourcew that you provided me, this means a lot to someone that is going through a hard time.
- Date posted
- 2y ago
So I made this post 251 days ago, and I will have to say that I’m deeply surprised by how 9 years of carrying this burden were basically over after almost a year of therapy. And the answer to the question I made 251 days ago is no, I didn’t succeded on being my own therapist, it actually sucked. People can’t treat themselves just as no one can’t do their own surgery. At the end of the day you will be responsible for your progress but proper guidance is fundamental. Even though I didn’t enrolled with a NOCD therapist due to differences between our time zones, I had the privilege to get a job to pay for my ERP therapy while my parents supported me fanancially to cover the rest of my bills. Sadly it is not everyone’s cases and sadly we live in a world were money facilitates happiness if we translate happiness info “access to health care”. Right now I’m deeply focused on my career and I made a promise to myself that I will sponsor someone with their ERP therapy whenever I am financially stable enough. Cheers to those 251 days ago.
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- 23w ago
I tried contacting NOCD, but they said that they didn't accept my insurance, and even if they did, I'd have to provide co-payment. I felt devastated because I'm afraid of going to a therapist who will misunderstand me. I can't afford therapy at the moment but I might be able to in a few months. Are there any alternatives for self therapy?
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- 16w ago
Now that we’ve kicked off the new year, I find myself reflecting on where the OCD community is today—how things have changed for the better, as well as my hopes for the future. Ten years ago, it was almost impossible to access a licensed therapist with specialty training in OCD using health insurance. Most professionals simply didn’t understand what OCD actually looks like, so over 95% of OCD cases weren’t correctly diagnosed. As a result, insurance companies weren’t able to see how widespread OCD actually was—or how effective exposure and response prevention (ERP) therapy was at treating it. Instead, people with OCD had to pay about $350 or more per session, all out of pocket, for their best chance at getting their life back. I know this from personal experience. OCD turned my life completely upside-down, and I reached out desperately for help, only to be misdiagnosed and mistreated by professionals who didn’t understand OCD. When I finally learned about ERP therapy, the evidence-based treatment specifically designed for OCD, I learned that I’d have to wait for months to see the one OCD specialist in my area, and I couldn’t afford the cost. But I was fortunate. My mom found a way to help us pay, and I finally got the help I needed. Otherwise, I don’t think I’d be here today. In a few months, I started seeing improvement. As I continued to get better using the skills I learned while working with my OCD specialist, I learned I wasn’t the only one with this experience—in fact, millions of people across the country were going through the exact same things I was. That’s why we started NOCD. Since 2015, we’ve always had one mission: to restore hope for people with OCD through better awareness and treatment. The OCD community needed an option for evidence-based treatment that they could afford and access, no matter where they live—an option that also provided necessary support between sessions. And the entire healthcare industry needed to understand how OCD actually works. As I write this post, I’m more enthusiastic than ever about our mission. Just recently, we’ve partnered with Blue Cross Blue Shield of Illinois, Texas, New Mexico, Montana, and Oklahoma. To put this into perspective, 155 million Americans can now use their insurance to access NOCD Therapy. This year, I have high hopes for the OCD community. More and more people will be able to use their insurance to pay for NOCD Therapy, and we’re working hard to give everyone who has OCD the ability to access the treatment they deserve. In addition to providing ERP Therapy, our OCD-specialty therapists also support our Members in prioritizing their overall well-being. With a focus on developing important lifestyle habits, including diet, exercise, mindfulness, and healthy sleep hygiene, they help our members build a strong foundation for lasting mental health so people are more prepared to manage OCD long-term. For every person who gains access to a therapist specialized in OCD for the first time, 2025 could be a year that changes their lives. If you or a loved one is suffering from OCD, please comment below or schedule a free 15-minute call with our team to learn more about how to access evidence-based OCD treatment and ongoing support using your insurance benefits.
- Date posted
- 14w ago
Hey friends, I hope you all are well. I just wanted to check in and ask people's experiences about being on medication. I have had OCD pretty much my whole life, just got recently diagnosed 4 months ago and my therapist recommended that I get on meds for it so I have a psychiatrist appointment set up. I'm a little apprehensive about getting on them, but I've realized that I do have some sort of chemical imbalance in my brain that plays a part in my OCD and anxiety. I would love to hear anyones experiences or words of encouragement. Thank you, I hope you all are well.
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