Does anyone else get this???

Hello ks233447, This is completely normal in our subset, I have been dealing with this for years, and it wasn’t until just recently that I have learned to embrace those thoughts, without me paying them any attention. I know get those thoughts from time to time and they have no we’re near the effect on me they once did, I can actually laugh it off, I remember I use to immediately look at folks reaction to me and would assume they thought I was gay, for no freaking reason I would walk around and assume everybody would look at me and think I was gay. I too, feared never finding my wife, but thankfully I am happily married with kids, and have a better social life and a career that demand I be around a lot of people, do your erp, and work hard at it and you too could live a plentiful life!!!

Dressing outside of straight stereotypes can be good erp !

Not sure if this would help you, but at one point I completely embraced being alone, because it also scared the crap out of me, the thought that oh I'm not attracted to anyone right now, that must mean I'm gay. But once I actually got comfortable with being alone, and reminded myself that it is completely normal for people to go through periods where they're not thinking of anyone and that's ok, that situation doesn't have to mean anything if you don't want it to and that's okay, even though it doesn't seem like it, you're in control, you have the power to engage your thoughts however you like