My boyfriend just dumped me because he lost feelings and thinks we’re too hard and it’s because of my anxiety and ROCD:(( I’m a mess rn guys. I love him and I lost the best part of me. Does anyone have any advice for breakups

I’m sorry this has happened. My husband actually moved out the beginning of the year for similar reasons. I love the cliche quote, “if they don’t love you at your worst, they don’t deserve you at your best.” I say this with a grain of salt. My issue, which is why I downloaded this app, was that I didn’t get the help I needed. I ruminated in my anxiety with pride. I believed that I could handle it on my own. However, this is too big of a monster. And help is necessary. My advice to you would be, take care of yourself mentally and physically. After you’ve done the work, find someone who is strong enough to catch you. People with anxiety are tough. We may not feel like it. But, to go to through what we go through on a daily basis is challenging. You deserve someone who can match your strength. I hope this helps.

f him lol like if he doesn’t want to have ever part of you then he obviously wasn’t that amazing anyways. someone who really loves you will truly love ever single part of you, so his love was obviously never true. You’ll die for someone you love, right? so if he would die for you, then why wouldn’t he stick around with you? exactly... it doesn’t make sense. it’s because he never really loved you. sooooo f him

Update: he asked for me back and he also was just going thru a stressful time and just needed to clear his thoughts!!!! Thank you for all ur support

He was usually so good at helping me and listening but last night I brought up my doubts and he kinda just shut down and said how me being unhappy makes him unhappy and stressed and I’ve been giving off negative vibes lately Bc I’ve been stressed and how he loved me but didn’t feel a spark anymore and lost feelings:( he was the best part of me and he made me grow and idk how he could just throw us all away

I agree. It kills me when people only want to come around during the good times, disappear during the bad yet day they love you.

It hurts like hell:( he was the only person I ever trusted fully in my life:( and he was my safe space and my best friend and he just threw that in the trash and now I’m stuck loving someone who doesn’t even love me

Does he want to work on things?

No I begged him to give me another chance and let me fix things and I told him I could work on me and make it less stressful and he just told me to stop making the decision harder than it already is and just to accept it:( I’m not ready to give us up yet tho

:( I’m sorry. You know what, though, if you truly want him back, be so unavailability and flourished that he will hate he didn’t stick around :)