Worried

…we’ve both been depressed… seriously depressed… It’s either I work all the time and due to his lack of hours he is always stuck in the house… I know I love him. I know that deep down I still do. Maybe it’s because everyday is the same thing with nothing changing… I hate my job and want to find a new one but then again I don’t wanna work anymore (sounds childish I know) we’ve never had the opportunity to live without people… always living with others… Before my depression got bad we use to have a wonderful sex life and now lately we haven’t had sex at all. I told him it bothers me. It’s been hard on him to wanna have sex due to him having a low drive due to depression. I told him I am worried about our physical connection and due to lack of it I feel like we have no intimacy due to that. I know that people go thru rough patches and anything can be fixed with effort. We’ve been together going on 12 years.

@7710 ❤️ I completely understand i think you guys should get out of your Comfort zone and set a date nite 1 day a week it’s just for you 2 no one else dress up go out come home and watch a movie that’s what I use to do I know lack of sex sometimes does separate a lot of couples so ask him what you can do to boost his sex drive

@Anonymous There are other concerns but I am constantly thinking about them…. I don’t wanna break up! Even saying that I hear. You’re lying! In my head without thinking it… 😢 I obsessed about them… i don’t wanna break up… 😢😢 I just wanna be with him like before where we could laugh and hug without feeling closed off… 😢

@7710 ❤️ Listen to me,I had these same thoughts what I want you to do is go to the store,get you both your favorite snacks put on a funny movie and watch it together,it helped me,AND me and my girl both had fun

Dont let ROCD ruin your relationship I know it’s easier said then done but you have support replace all your thoughts with all the good times you had

😢😢😞😞 Most of the time… 😭😭 I wanna cry… i do have moments of feeling it but not much… 😢😢😭 I am really crying…. It’s like I wanna end my relationship 😭😭😭😭 it’s like it’s what I truly want 😭😭 I held him and started crying softly so he wouldn’t hear me.. I want to love him like before again!! I hate this!!

I understand I do the I focus on issue to much but I’m learning to let go and continue doing what I was doing I say think about all the good times you guys had

Stop looking for the answer,that’s the oroblem

OCD can make you feel anything. It knows you don’t want to feel this so it’s purposely making you feel like this