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- 6y
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I’m not going to say that your parents are right or wrong about this. I don’t believe you have to entirely rule out being a doctor, but maybe you do need to be in a better place before you can become one. I know how debilitating OCD can be and I have had to put goals on the back burner because of it. It’s a really difficult concept for me, but maybe God has a reason for it. That said, I have gotten better. I was in a really horrible place last year with my OCD and I can’t believe how much I have improved. Don’t give up. Also, I believe you are helping people just by being on this app. You give support and share your story which makes other people realize they’re not alone. As I’m sure you know, one of the worst feelings when you’re struggling is believing you’re alone. God loves you more than you know and He is always good.❤️❤️
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My dear friend, I am so sorry you’re dealing with this. I too have dealt with OCD and depression so I know how terrible they can be. Are you studying to be a doctor now?
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Well, I’m pre-med and have one more year left of undergrad, but I’m not in med school yet
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They tell me that if I’m struggling now that I’ll drown in med school. And that “you’ve gotta admit you’ve degraded over the last 18 months.” Degraded??
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Nobody can tell you what you should do with your dreams. I had someone say the same thing recently about nursing. Personally I think people who go through mental illness are the strongest, most compassionate people out there - fantastic characteristics for a doctor. And the thing is, your depression/OCD WILL get better. It will. Believe that. Maybe medical school will be harder right at this very moment but that does not mean it isn’t the right route for you. It sounds like something you’re passionate about, and maybe putting it off for a year is the right thing to do. But don’t give up! I know you mentioned you’ve been suicidal and I really want to make sure you’re getting the help you deserve. You are so much more than your mental illness (I know it can feel like it’s all consuming, especially something like OCD). You don’t know me, but I think just by going through what you are right now makes you even more likely to achieve your dreams because you know the strength it takes to get through extremely hard things. Please don’t take what your parents said seriously. ALSO literally everyone drowns in medical school lol so them saying that means nothing!!!
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- 25w
I can't stop thinking about ending my life. I feel like I'm not even living, I'm just surviving. Everyone is capable of being a person and functioning and I'm just stuck here avoiding everything. My psychiatrist said my ocd is severe and it will all take time and I'll start erp and I'm already on medication but I just feel so depressed and like I won't be able to handle erp and it's already too late for me. I feel inhuman, it's debilitating. My major theme is just fear or contamination, I can't even make myself a meal I can't touch anything in the kitchen. I get stuck in the shower for 2 hours and when I don't shower because I'm depressed I feel like a walking germ. My hands are a mess, my school work is shit, I avoid and avoid and I'm just so tired of "living" like this. My psychiatrist said they don't have any therapists available right now like.... excuse me? What do you mean u don't have any 😭 I honestly don't even know why I'm typing this becuase nothing helps, nothing ever will. I'm so deep into this I can't get out, my room looks like shit, I can't live in this body anymore, I really can't. I let everyone down, I am and will be such a dissapointment. I don't have any dreams or goals or passions I just wasn't made to be here. I don't know how or who to ask for help like there's nothing anyone can do, I'm already on meds. I can't keep being like this, seeing everyone judge me for acting insane.
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- 24w
I have OCD, but my parents don’t understand what I’m going through. All I wanted was for someone to be by my side and support me, but they dismiss my struggles, telling me to "just stop thinking" and that I’m making a big deal out of nothing. When I asked for a new therapist because my current one isn’t helping—she isn’t even an OCD specialist—they became angry and didn't believe I need therapy and instead blame me for everything. My father was so mad, he insist to gave me a knife and kill myself. He threatened to isolate me completely, cutting me off from school, the internet, and everything else. My mom cried and shut me down when I tried to explain my pain. They refuse to listen and my dad said it’s all my fault. That day they threw me outside the house for a night, and called me back in telling me to forget everything and forgive them, but I understood that I will not be able to mention anything about my mental health or seeing an OCD specialist ever again, I am completely alone now. With no financial support, and now I don’t know if I’ll ever get the proper therapy I need. I’m only 15, but it feels like I’ll be trapped in this suffering forever, I feel hopeless, I feel like shit, I am going to suffer forever with no support and help.
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- 19w
I don’t know if it’s worth it to keep going. I have so many diagnoses, so little support, and constant struggles with finding the right medication. My immune system is weak, I have multiple deficiencies, and I’m dealing with so many physical health problems on top of severe OCD. It’s just too much. On top of everything, my family treats me so not okay. Every single day is a fight just to keep going—to wake up, to eat, to take care of myself even a little. I’ve lost over ten pounds in the last two weeks from how depressed I’ve been. And instead of support, all I get is blame. My family constantly throws my struggles in my face, calling me selfish, as if I’m choosing this. I am trying so hard to push past all of this. But after five long months of severe OCD, anxiety, depression, panic disorder, and everything else making life unbearable, I am exhausted. And to be called lazy? Selfish? *Worthless*? How am I supposed to keep going when the people around me refuse to see how hard I’m trying? I don’t want this anymore. None of this suffering feels worth it. What am I fighting for just to be treated this way by my own family? To be yelled at for the look on my face, when my face reflects nothing but the stress, panic, and despair I’m drowning in? Am I still supposed to smile for them? This isn’t fair. No one should have to live like this. I don’t deserve to be treated this way, I’m really trying to keep going, but I just want everything to end.
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