- Date posted
- 6y
- Date posted
- 6y
I deleted facebook because it constantly reminded me of past, and since I suffer from false memories OCD and real event OCD I decided to delete it. Seeing high school friends, seeing old photos of me, that all triggered me into finding new obssesions and rumination so yeah...I deleted it because of triggers just not the same as yours.
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- 6y
Here’s the thing if you guys are avoiding triggers that bother your ocd that’s a compulsion and you’ll never get a shot a habituation. Listen I know how difficult it is but you have what it takes to tell yourself you know what I could realist avoid all this stuff, delete this and avoid that but I’m not going to I’m not going to let ocd win. Knowing you’ll likely see and trigger and not run from it is how you move forward.
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- 6y
Yes ik what you mean. What you need to do is act in align with your values. When you do something whether it be to avoid something or to do something you have to ask yourself WHY you are doing this. If you do something solely because OCD said to or it’s to avoid a trigger than it’s a compulsion. Anything down to avoid discomfit from obsessions is a compulsion. If your avoiding something because you know you don’t want it anymore then you have the right to do that also. Your right it’s about balance and awareness of WHY you do the things you do.
- Date posted
- 6y
So taking a as needed medicine when you have faced these things throughout the day to calm you down because your chest is sore from facing these fears all day is a compulsion?
- Date posted
- 6y
No, if OCD makes you do it against you will and it’s something done that’s against YOUR true values then it’s a compulsion.
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- 6y
@MikeG that is my whole question!! Because I don’t want to avoid and create compulsions and issues and run away rather than confront but I also feel I have a right to remove some things... such a balance and not sure how to find the right answer
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- 24w
Ok so I just downloaded this app like two days ago because I was looking for a OCD specialist. Maybe this is just my opinion but the posting’s on this app can be super triggering. If feels like even sharing your experience on an app like this can contribute to fueling OCD. So many people I see reassurance seeking, confessing and posting the same things multiple times to gain certainty. Makes me wonder if this app is counterproductive to the point of OCD treatment. I’m guilty of spending hours scrolling through the post trying to find people who relate to me, but in the end it makes me more anxious and fuels my OCD. Idk what do you guys think.
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- 20w
Idk anymore it feels like being on here is a trigger. Every time I see a minor post on the app, my intrusive thoughts go haywire and then my brain says maybe you should comment something inappropriate and i literally don't wanna fucking do that. It's the last thing I want to do. And now im scared that I commented something crude on someone's post. obviously, when I went to check there was nothing now my brain is saying "you commented and then deleted". I want to think it's something I wouldn't do, but why are the images in my head so real. Children should be safe. I feel like I need to be locked away. Someone please help me.
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- Date posted
- 19w
like the title says, i also suffer from cancel culture OCD, even more these last two months in which i have noticed that several people have been deleting me from social media, in fact two days ago i had a spiral as someone recently blocked me. i won't go into it to avoid the compulsion to confess but basically i had issues before with my ex and some of his friends that he himself ended up involving, even though we are on good terms he made sure to make me look like i was the problem and several mutual friends have been detaching themselves from me. the thing is, i see many people say that to fight their cancel culture OCD they delete their social media and then just. disappear. but i don't want to do this - i don't want to hide, i want to stay in the public eye and create things, in fact, i am an artist. but since the last year now i live in constant fear and also somewhat sensitive to what others think of me thanks to the rumors about me and i'm afraid that one day i might be "exposed" or something like that; and i also feel like i'm "pretending" to be a good person all the time. so, with what i already said, how do i deal with this without having to resort to deleting my social media? i think that exposing myself every day and continuing to post things on social medias despite the constant fear and guilt i feel would count as ERP, right? thanks.
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