I have always had a HOCD but now I’m really confused because now I think I am asexual but I’m not for sure I don’t really think of sex all that much but I do want to have sex one day! iso I’m confused and I don’t know if I experience sexual attraction or not or if it’s just hocd that has gotten rid of it and I know when I was younger I use to be a little sexual I use to watch a little porn and men in hot underwear but, o don’t know if that was because I was a kid and I liked it because I wasn’t aloud to look it up or if I just have a low sex drive in or if I’m asexual I would really like some help because I’m really getting bothered by this and don’t know what to do anymore and I have nothing wrong with asexuals! Please Help!

A symptom of hocd is decreased libido, it's normal cause your hocd "manipulates" the way you react to things you would usually enjoy

Yes because your mind is caught up in million other thoughts. Hocd can make you feel things that aren't real, it's normal you feel this way

Hocd is actually called sometimes soocd, because attacks every aspect of your sexuality and identity. You have an obsession with the possibility of being asexual as someday you had about being gay/lesbian. Also if I can give you an advice, get rid of labels, they are going to worry you and make you confuse. Is okay for other people who needs to be represented but not to people who deal with a disorder. Just live the moment as you feel now without thinking what label do you need or how that people feel... otherwise... is not going to reach an end, and someday not so far, things get clearer again :)

Question is it normal to not think about sex all that much?

Thank you

Thank you but it’s like with hocd it’s like you feel you need a label to feel like yourself if you know what I mean

Yes, but that is harming you too. You keep telling yourself you are this or you are not this. In the end it doesn't matter at all. Is not the theme what is important but the way you obsses about it.