jzepedaa7
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Relationship
Anyone in a relationship and struggling with HOCD or SOCD hmu so we can talk and help each other š
jzepedaa7jzepedaa7
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I feel your pain , just tough having a girl you feel you love but your mind playing games all day
whopperjames95 whopperjames95
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@jzepedaa7 Does she know about it? Is she understanding?
jzepedaa7jzepedaa7
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@whopperjames95 No yea she does and is understanding Some what as you know itās hard to understand this disorder lol
jzepedaa7jzepedaa7
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@whopperjames95 Itās just weird for me because when Iām with her I get intrusive thoughts / images that I donāt want and that gives me anxiety to see her because I feel like I will get the images and thoughts feel me . Not that I donāt love her just itās uncomfortable for me and I donāt want to leave her because I feel like I will regret it and she really is amazing not a lot of girls left like her
whopperjames95 whopperjames95
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@jzepedaa7 I completely understand. There have been times while hooking up with a girl, an intrusive thought comes and Iām likeā¦.reallyā¦.right now? Lol Ya just be open and honest with her, if she isnāt accepting of it or is not willing to work with you, then Iād move on. But you said she is, so thatās good!
whopperjames95 whopperjames95
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@jzepedaa7 I am curious, how did you develop HOCD? Mine was trauma based.
mrgg11mrgg11
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@whopperjames95 what trauma
whopperjames95 whopperjames95
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@mrgg11 Doesnāt sound traumatic, but it was for me. I can now laugh about it. I was with a girl, having sex, was tons of fun, and for like 10 seconds I went limp. After that day, I started thinking wow, what if I have erectile dysfunction. I am obsessed about always having erectile dysfunction for about three months, I couldnāt sleep, I couldnāt eat. Then one day I had a what if thought, the thought was: what if I am gay? And down the rabbit hole of OCD and I went lol
mrgg11mrgg11
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@whopperjames95 can uou help me here
whopperjames95 whopperjames95
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@mrgg11 Sure, what do you need help with?
mrgg11mrgg11
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@whopperjames95 uou got instagram?
mrgg11mrgg11
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@whopperjames95 you can see my previous post why im scared of girl part?
jzepedaa7jzepedaa7
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@whopperjames95 My b for the long explanation lol just trying to help
jzepedaa7jzepedaa7
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@jzepedaa7 @whopperjames95
whopperjames95 whopperjames95
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Been struggling with HOCD, not in a relationship though.
Erica6738Erica6738
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I have hocd and it definitely has affected my relationship with my boyfriend.
Erica6738Erica6738
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I recommend if your comfortable, talking to your partner about what your going through. It took me months to do this, but it has helped immensely. I no longer feel like Iām hiding half of myself from him and he is so understanding of my ocd
jzepedaa7jzepedaa7
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@Erica6738 Oh yea I already told her and Iām open with her when Iām having a bad day and shit like that sheās amazing that made me love her even more to know she loves me for who I am you know . Itās just annoying cause it never feels like you are present in the moment you feel me cause you are always battling the thoughts and images and I get anxious thinking that when Iām with her the thoughts and images will attack itās just a big mind fuck lol
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