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- 2y
feeling guilty that I didn’t have the ‘spark’
Every time I envision a future with my boyfriend some random other guy pops into my head , like I get excited about the thought of loving and having kids with my boyfriend and then the image of a random other guy comes I to my head instead and it’s really bothering me :( I’m trying not to catastrophise or see this as a ‘sign from the universe ‘ but I feel sick with guilt because of it :( I also hate that I never had that infatuation/strong pull towards my boyfriend but I know that I love him more than anything but when I Google most people say ‘you can’t be in love without the spark’ etc… I’m terrified to lose my boyfriend I love him so much but these thoughts are awful