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- idont241
- Date posted
- 5y ago
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- lehamleham
- Date posted
- 5y ago
And maybe you do! Point is, try your best to find comfort in NOT knowing. That is where we need to find peace to recover. You don’t need to know the answer!
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- lehamleham
- Date posted
- 5y ago
I know, ocd does NOT want you to be comfortable with uncertainty so it’s going to take the fact that you don’t you and say- DENIAL DENIAL DENIAL so it can make you be scared of something. That’s it’s whole goal- be scared of something (that in reality warrants no fear). Aw you’re too sweet❤️ You can do this, I know it’s extremely troubling sometimes but I’m here fighting with you- and I believe in you!!
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- AnonymousAnonymous
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Maybe you dont?
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- idont241idont241
- Date posted
- 5y ago
It just makes it feel like denial or something then. It’s weird. I hate it. I was sure I was attracted to these guys today and now it’s coming up with this. Thank you for your respond tho. You always know the eBay things to say!
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- lehamleham
- Date posted
- 5y ago
don’t know**
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- crazyfeelings crazyfeelings
- Date posted
- 5y ago
If you used to be attracted to guys and then all the sudden it changed that is ocd. If you don’t enjoy the thought of being with a girl, if those thoughts are not what you want that’s not you. I’m the same way, my brothers gay and I talked to him about it and he said “you obviously aren’t a lesbian, you would know if you were a lesbian. It wouldn’t make you upset” It’s ok to feel uncertain! You’ll be alright
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- AnonymousAnonymous
- Date posted
- 5y ago
You might be straight, you might be bisexual, you might be gay, you might have ocd and any one of those also might be true and you would be a finer person regardless. I hope you follow through with getting help. Im rooting (i cant spell that word) and im sure others here are as well!
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- crazyfeelings crazyfeelings
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Yeah it really seems like you’re having a rough time, I was going through this but I’ve kind of helped myself through it. The thing is if you were of any sexual orientation it wouldn’t change you. You would still be you.
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- idont241
- Date posted
- 5y ago
I can’t imagine myself with a guy. I don’t even know if I want a guy. It’s like I’m convinced I’ll never want a guy. Even though I have, it’s just I feel like I don’t want to be with guys. I don’t even know if I want to be a lesbian or not That was horrible to admit. Well I guess that’s it. It completely sounds like I’m gay now.
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- idont241
- Date posted
- 5y ago
I used to not feel like this. Watching movies and not feel “attracted” to every single person. I was only actually attracted to a few, and they were all guys. Or not question if I do. Or see badass female characters and admire them in a subtle way without actually it being mistaken by attraction. Now it feels real. Like I’ve accepted it. Like I want to date girls. I used to be around guys in my school and feel awkward and uncomfortable, different. Now it’s all gone. I can’t even imagine myself loving a guy. It’s all gone.
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- aquarius01
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Does anyone feel like they don’t know what they want anymore? Like I just don’t know anymore at this point. If someone asked me if I was straight, my head would go straight to “i don’t even know anymore tbh.”
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