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- 6y
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I think I finally came to a realization that it isn’t true. I obviously still doubt everything. But you can’t suddenly change, you can’t suddenly turn gay. You would know you were that way. My brother always talks about his crushes on boys when he was younger, he thought boys were cute since like 7th grade. Then he remembered crushes when he was younger. I’ve never felt that way towards girls. It’s dumb and I’m tired of it. So fuck it, who cares? I’m fine
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- 6y
Everything’s going to be alright, you had another type of ocd it can pass on to another one. You have hocd, I can tell. I don’t know if that’s reassurance but you need to hear it.
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If you were happy think about these thoughts I don’t think you would be here on this app right now. You wouldn’t be here at all. You would KNOW. Knowing is such a big thing. We just want to know the answer all the time. But if you were that way it really wouldn’t be a question. You might question wait I’m really gay? Are you sure? Wait I like girls? Things like that you might even question am I gay? But for us those thoughts cause a lot of confusion. Their answer is always yes ours is always idk or no. It’s really confusing and I know this isn’t going to help you. But you really have to try, try to get it through your head! I really want you to get better, because I can tell you’re going through hell. I know it’s shitty but I think you can do it
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- 6y
I’m sure she won’t! It will be ok, be glad you can go to a therapist. It will be ok I swear❤️
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- 6y
It’s ok I swear you’ll be fine. My brain made me think that because I got my glasses that I suddenly liked girls. I don’t even have bad vision I just can’t see certain things on the board. Ocd is dumb don’t listen to it
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- 6y
Well I hope you have a therapist who specializes in ocd because sometimes that can happen because they don’t know what ocd actually is like. They can confuse it for something else
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- 6y
Yeah I know. It’s hard❤️
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- 19w
I keep seeing tiktoks of things that are like ‘things I did as a lesbian in denial’ or ‘things my not so straight straight friend said’ and I feel like I might relate to some!! But idk!! It’s kinda triggering me. I’ve had this 5 years on and off now so when it comes back the whole well you’ve had it so long you must be gay comes up. I have been with my boyfriend almost 6 years and i love him so much I don’t want to be gay (nothing weong with it - I’m just not and don’t want to be!)
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- 8w
I have a lot of trouble with my sexuality. I’ve been trying to figure out my sexuality for years. I’ve dated a man, and I wasn’t really into the whole time. And since then I’ve thought that maybe I’m a lesbian because I’m attracted to women, which I know for sure. But then my brain spirals, I constantly think back ti memories with my ex, how I felt with him, I check how it makes me feel. I often google to see if other lesbians have felt similar, I ask ChatGpt over and over again. I feel like I have to be 100% certain or that im faking for attention, or thst I’ll end up with a man. I guess im wondering has anyone else felt like this ? What’s been your experience how do you manage it?
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- 8w
So I haven’t been on this app in a while. But I just want advice on how to overcome this. I’m now 18 and I’ve been trying out dating apps. I’m not gonna lie I’m kinda picky when it comes to dating only because I plan on dating to marry…so I take it a bit more seriously. But for some reason it’s so hard to click with people on these dating apps. So my friend was helping me through this dating apps process. I told her that I wasn’t interested in this guy I was texting anymore because of the way he was responding to my messages. And she says maybe you’re gay…this is honestly the sixth time (I’m definitely over exaggeration but this isn’t the first time someone had said this to me) someone has ask/said this. Every time someone says this it literally sends me down this spiral of are they seeing something I’m not seeing. Despite never having a crush on a girl my mind goes down this loop of overthinking. And when I say I don’t want that lifestyle or I don’t really find pleasure in being apart of the lgbtq community my mind is like in denial. I just wanted to have a fun teenage dating experience and now every time I open the app I always think what if I really am gay and I’m just in denial…or what if the reason why I’m not connecting with anyone is because I’m really into girls. Since i’m also religious, my mom wants to go what you’re denying who we are because of your religion. And I tried to reassure myself by saying I would know if that was the case like I would feel deep down who I’m truly attracted to and know that I’m trying to cover it up by dating men. This whole thing is so mentally taxing because I was going through this all throughout my senior year of high school and I’m not going into my freshman year of college so. Like I literally felt so much anxiety next to one of my classmates who was gay and a masculine presenting. I feel like if I would’ve told this to anyone, they’d say of course you’re in denial. But ig reply if you can relate
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