I feel like I should just confess every detail

I relate to this so much. It actually almost ended my relationship a few years ago. I guess my only advice is to just tell yourself to just wait 2 more weeks.

Been there. Do NOT confess. They do not need to know every single detail. Ocd wants you to live in guilt. No matter what you say or do. The guilt will always be there. Or it will create different things that you need to confess to. You need to let go of whatever you did. Learn from your mistakes. As hard and difficult as that sounds you have to. For the sake of yourself and your loved one. The guilt will swallow you whole. I’m telling you as someone who has real event ocd my obsession and guilt started to create false memories. Awful awful ones. It’s going to want you to keep confessing. Do not give in.

I get that, I just feel worried that these are things I did that wrong my partner. Don't give me any reassurance here because that's not what I'm seeking, but for me I almost went to a female friend's apartment while drunk and held hands with her. I told my gf both of these things, but my concern that I don't think she understands is that I'm not sure if I was just going to the apartment to hang out, or to fool around. I feel like that's something she should know, that it was something I think I was trying to do to cheat. But I'm honestly not 100% sure myself. So hard to know what to say and not say with OCD :(

Your OCD is lying to you, the guilt doesn’t go away. A lot of my confessions are just things I’m worried I did or meant, not what actually happened. Sometimes I’ll realize it wasn’t true after confessing and there is no taking it back

As someone who’s been there, each confession will make you feel good for about an hour or so then ocd will find some other detail you’ll feel the need to confess and it just goes on and on and on …….