i have a boyfriend and i don't want to have sex at all cause im asexual. but last time when i with him i have sexual graphic thoughts and feelings. im scared what if im not asexual, im scared what if i like that thoughts i don't want tošš
I'm treading carefully because I don't want to give reassurance, but intrusive thoughts aren't your actual thoughts. The other part of this is that just because you're ace doesn't mean you'll never have sexual urges. Speaking as another ace- just don't do anything you're not comfortable but your sexuality isn't changed because you occasionally have thoughts, urges or even actions. Definitely talk to a therapist though if you're more interested in understanding this stuff though
@Idyot i don't have therapist, but thanks!!
please help me i feel so guilty š
Iām 25 and never ever thought this before my soocd relapse. I have a bf of 5 years. Never been a high libido kinda girl. Donāt get me wrong I do get turned on by my bf but not like every day you know? - That had always been in the back of my head, is this normal and ok? But my ocd has latched onto the most scariest what if EVER. My brain is now saying How do you know you wonāt prefer to sleep and kiss girls if you havenāt tried it: and itās that unknown that is scaring the shit out of me. I DONT AND NEVER HAVE wanted to sleep / kiss a girl. But now my intrusive thoughts is all I think about!!! I donāt want I donāt want I donāt want??? So why does my brain think BUT WHAT IF??? I know ocd thrives off uncertainty which is why I think this is happening? But I donāt wanna find out or work it out because all I want is to be with my bf and marry him!! Is this just the epitome of OCD?
just crying cause i feel like im never going to recover and just have to be lesbian, even tho i love my boyfriend so much. thoughts donāt even give me anxiety anymore idk what to do, im just so done, feel like itās all real and that i want it(when i dont). any tips or anything, idk how to keep going
I really dont know if it is ocd anymore I dont want certain sexual things with my bf anymore that i used to like When i envision it with a girl it is so easy to envision and it feels like i want that , that will give me the satisfaction This feeling is making me really question if i am still into men , desire men sexually Is this still ocd , i really dont know anymore , as it is a feeling it is too real
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