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Pleaseā¦ I seriously donāt think I have ROCD anymore that I truly donāt love him enough anymore.. can this happen with ROCD or do I just not love him anymoreā¦
NS1234NS1234
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I go through this too. Itās not real , youāre thoughts arenāt real. Theyāre the ocd talking . Do not believe it
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I have been struggling with this a lot lately - so I understand. ā¹ļø Stayed up late crying last night. Been with my husband almost 10 years and questioning why we ever got together. Even though I really do love him, and I know I have in the past...it's like we're disconnected. It is very painful. š People can love each other and have times where they were truly in love, and still move on. Please don't feel guilt. BUT!...I'm going to talk with my husband about our disconnection and his bad communication; how we stopped pursuing one another, and began living our own lives - and go back to square one...dating each other and getting to know each other again! I would recommend you do the same before taking any steps toward breaking up. šš Maybe yall can go to counseling together. People change after years. It's normal to change. Continue to get to know each other. I hope this helps! I understand how painful it is.
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I also want to add, many times when I feel this way, ocd makes the "problems" I see sooo much worse, and I see clearly the next day. Like...if I feel like he doesn't care about my interests and doesn't listen, I'll remember a niche gift he gave me, because he does listen and care. I hope that makes sense? It doesn't help that, personally I deal with splitting/b&w thinking. So anxiety makes some issues seem HUGE and exaggerated during an episide...but it's not all true. š
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@SaraBeara ā¦..I never wanted to break upā¦ I never wanted our relationship to dieā¦ I never wanted this to be the end.. I just wanted us to be away from people.. I donāt think I should go to work todayā¦
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@SaraBeara I have had clarity moments where I am super happy and know I love him. Where I donāt think about our problems and am just happy. Right nowā¦ I am at the point where I wanna die. He read in ROCD to understand what I am going through and has been trying so hard to show so much love and support. I just want to be normal again. Maybe i am normalā¦ idk anymoreā¦ I am just not doing good. Right now. I just want to dieā¦ I really doā¦
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@SaraBeara I want us both to do counseling together and by ourselves as both of our mental health is bad. I am crying right nowā¦ š¢ my heart is breakingā¦
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@SaraBeara I know I want change butā¦ not him being my exā¦ I told myself he might be my ex and started crying. The ex tittle doesnāt suit him for me. I donāt wanna break up
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Iām here for you. What is the context of your relationship? It is okay to not love him anymore if that is what you truly feel..š¤
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@norx What do you mean by context?I cried when I said I couldnāt say I love you anymoreā¦
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@norx I want it to be my obsessive behavior that is the causeā¦ pleaseā¦
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@norx All I wanna do is cryā¦ I donāt want thisā¦ I donāt wanna this to be trueā¦ what about my happy momentsā¦
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@norx I would cry more if he wasnāt hereā¦
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@norx Thinking of me not being with him anymore is making me cryā¦ We have a good time together and we love just relaxing. š Outside stress factors come into play.. family money being in debt.. is making my problems worse.. if I didnāt love him why would I be sadā¦ why would I cry about not being with him anymore..
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@norx There are things that needs work. I still tell him I love him. I mean it.
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