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Givenup

Date posted: 2y

POCD and porn

I am awake in the late night as I type all of this out.. I don't think I can ever forgive myself for the past “private time” to loli content and other explicit comics / fanfics with adult and really young cartoon characters couple of times unknowingly when I was 12, and 14 and occasionally unknowingly when I was 17-18. (Ex. Marge and Lisa) I had stopped three years ago, and I'm 21 now but I'm getting intrusive memories of doing it and I immensely regret it and feel triggered by it… I didn't know what the content was in any way at the time or what it represented… and while I avoided most of the content, the videos of them had millions of views, both the videos and the fanfics / comics were on public sites, and some of the creators said they were 18 in some of the videos, so I thought it was safe to watch... I hate myself forever. And you people should hate me too. I'm worthless. I'm a disgusting creature who deserves nothing but the upmost anger and disgust from you all….. god help me.…. just recently I was watching hentai for the first time in a while, hoping to find regular stuff with women my age or above and I kept stumbling onto loli again. I got triggered and I left the videos immediately of course, but it's giving me memories back to those moments and it's making me feel like I want to watch when I dont. I skipped it of course. I hate this POCD (if this is even POCD) and I hate myself and you should hate me too… It’s making me feel like I’m not anxious about the real event OCD intrusive thoughts right now and more intrusive thoughts of being in denial because of the lack of anxious feelings… 😞😞😞 I know the real events (especially the real events when I was 13) that trigger my real event OCD were horrible and I regret them horribly… and my POCD and real event OCD is telling me that I’m a P and a m*lestor and making me feel like I’m accepting it… plus my intrusive thoughts are giving me false memories of either events that didn’t happen or my intentions during the event and saying that I’m worse than a p or a chomo… 😭😭😭 I don’t ever want to ever be a P or a chomo or anything like that in any way… my POCD just keeps telling me that I’m a P or a chomo or in worst case a child r*pist when I don’t ever want to ever be those things in any way 😭😭😭 it’s giving me intrusive thoughts about more details of the real events and this feeling in my head that hurts… I don’t ever want to ever be a p or a chomo in any way… I don’t ever want to harm anyone, especially children… I don’t ever want to ever be anything my intrusive thoughts tell me I am…

strawbmlk

Date posted: 2y

You were exposed to porn at a very young age, like many of us that are part of the younger generation. It’s unfortunate that it’s so easily accessible but you need to try and move on from actions in your teen years when you didn’t know better, it’s difficult

ramensoul

Date posted: 2y

What the previous commenter said is true. A lot of people nowadays are exposed to pornography from a young age without any guidance on it. You have to show compassion for yourself even though it's hard. Let the pain be there and continue on with your day.

HipHopAnonym...

Date posted: 2y

I agree with what the others have said about finding pornography young. Frankly, the environment has only gotten more accessible and more toxic. Without passing a direct judgment on it, suffice to say engaging with it these days automatically increases the chances that you will come across content which is triggering and upsetting in general.

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Date posted: 12w

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Date posted: 12w

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