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I’m literally dealing with the same thing! I’m so glad I have someone who feels the same way as me. My boyfriend is the same way and we have been dating 2 years and he is my bestfriend. Now i’m starting to have these thoughts and I don’t want too and they drive me nuts. I always have to find reassurance but I want to marry him and be with him for the rest of my life so why am I not feeling like I am in love? It hurts me so bad.

I RELATE! You are not alone. I do the same thing with my HUSBAND. just like you, I worry about his weight, his height, his posture, etc. and he is literally the most caring and genuine man I have ever met. (He even comforts ME even after I hurt his feeling by bringing up all of this stuff. So he is obviously such an angel). But not matter what, I can’t stop thinking about these stupid little intrusive thoughts and analyzing everything when I look at him. These thoughts started creeping in about 2 years ago. I think once the butterflies of the initial relationship wore off, it allowed these thoughts to creep in. You’re not alone.

I think I feel similar. Only that I don’t actually get to the point of actually being in a relationship. Doubts creep in early, I don’t feel enough love and I leave. I genuinely really wanted to feel something though…