- Username
- breannan20
- Date posted
- 1y ago
Are my intense friendships actually crushes? How can I tell?
Friendship fixations
I’ve seen a lot of people say they realized after coming out that their friend crushes or fixations were actually people they were attracted to and this scares me because I do this now and in the past. I’ll see a girl that I think is really pretty and seems cool and I want to be her friend so badly. I felt this way about one of my best friends growing up too. What if those are actually crushes? How do I know that they’re not, especially when I see all these people who say they didn’t realize?